I am so lost
I see 2 messages from this sub, "If she wants you, she'll make it easy/obvious" and "It's on you to make moves even if she doesn't look interested". Or is it just nuanced? Like i'm really fucking lost. Was on this one date where the girl says towards the end "Just to be clear, I don't see this as a date, I see it as a hangout. We should just stay friends first". I made 0 moves besides holding hands because whole time she just talked like she was doing customer service. Like what am I doing wrong. Not just going for stuff?