Struggled with ED--how to get courage to try PIV with current partner?
Due to a combination of porn/bad masturbation habbits and a side effect of a medication I [26m] am on, I struggled with ED and am prescribed medication (Cialis). It definitely helps a lot. But for some reason with PIV I go soft way more than oral/handjob.
I am now dating this girl [29f] who has a high sex drive. I make her climax a lot and love giving her pleasure via oral/fingers---and she also gives me oral. But, I really want to try PIV more and not get worried about going soft. We did it a few times with her on top and that worked out, but I lose it more in doggy (though that is what she likes).
I guess my question is--I clearly need to stop being afraid to try PIV more, but I am nervous we will attempt it and then I will go soft and it will be embarassing.