u/new_to_tech-124

I totally respect everyone's kink, not trying to kinkshame, just putting my views and wanting to see what you guys think ?

So for context I have born and brought up in a conservative Muslim family, since the childhood, we were taught that god is one & no one can take his place blah blah blah, which i feel all the Abrahamic religions say , like Christianity and all, even though lately I havent been religious at all,

But i feel a little uncomfortable calling a person god or goddess, it feels like i am doing blasphemy, I mean i do value & love my dom, but i dont think i can call her goddess, that's like a boundary for me,

So is there anyone who feels the same ? what are your thoughts about it ?

Alright have fun XD

So i dont want to generalize nor do i want to sound rude, Lately i have been thinking, about the experience that makes you a sub or a dom ?

Like it is said, "You are the sum of your experiences", so I have been in this kink space for about 1.5 years now i think, what i have realized are the following points, do let me know if i am wrong or what are your opinions

1. All the people that i have interacted with in the bdsm community or femdom community, is that most of the people, especially subs online do have some sort of depression or mental health related problems, like I think, their depression sometimes make them a masochist or a sub, not really trying to generalize it's just what i have experienced by talking to a lot of people from this sub.

2. Another point i wanna talk is, ,The reason about someone being a dom or a sub, I mean yea ofc people have their choice and they just like being that, but I wanna know what made you who you are ? like most of the doms i've seen, very few of them have had a good childhood, rest the majority i mean, were either sexually abused in a young age, or they've not had good relations with either of their parents, or something like that and same goes for subs, plus most of the people here who are claiming to be a sub have a serious porn addiction.

3. So I would like to ask, if you guys are open to sharing, how is your relationship with your family or siblings, and how would you describe your childhood ?

4. One final thing i'd like to point out, why is this sub getting filled with porn gifs lately ? like where are the actual good posts, text, memes, questions, discussions.

Alright have fun XD