u/nuttoza012

I’m 28, still single, a virgin, and have never had sex before. I mostly watch MILF porn and for a long time thought finishing in 2-3 minutes while masturbating was normal.

A few years ago I started practicing and training after reading about premature ejaculation. Surprisingly, I’ve gotten really good at it. I can now cum hands-free just from porn or captions, and I can complete 10-second or 15-second challenges easily.

Last week though, things got really embarrassing.

It was late at night and I was doing a 20-second challenge in my room. I forgot that my mom was staying over. She walked in right as I finished super fast — before the timer even ended.

The next day she looked at me with pity in her eyes and said, “Why do you finish so quickly like this, son? Have you gone to see a doctor yet?”
Then she added softly, “Is this why you still don’t have a girlfriend? You poor thing…”

I felt incredibly ashamed and awkward. She wasn’t angry, she just sounded genuinely sorry for me, which somehow made it even worse. Now every time I see her I feel embarrassed and I don’t know how to act normal around her anymore.

Even though I trained myself to be able to finish very quickly on purpose, this whole situation has left me feeling exposed and uncomfortable while mom visited at home.

Has anyone ever been caught by their parents in a moment like this? How did you deal with the awkwardness afterwards? Especially when your mom reacts with pity instead of anger?

I’m 28, still single, a virgin, and have never had sex before. I mostly watch MILF porn and for a long time thought finishing in 2-3 minutes while masturbating was normal.

A few years ago I started practicing and training after reading about premature ejaculation. Surprisingly, I’ve gotten really good at it. I can now cum hands-free just from porn or captions, and I can complete 10-second or 15-second challenges easily.

Last week though, things got really embarrassing.

It was late at night and I was doing a 20-second challenge in my room. I forgot that my mom was staying over. She walked in right as I finished super fast — before the timer even ended.

The next day she looked at me with pity in her eyes and said, “Why do you finish so quickly like this, son? Have you gone to see a doctor yet?”
Then she added softly, “Is this why you still don’t have a girlfriend? You poor thing…”

I felt incredibly ashamed and awkward. She wasn’t angry, she just sounded genuinely sorry for me, which somehow made it even worse. Now every time I see her I feel embarrassed and I don’t know how to act normal around her anymore.

Even though I trained myself to be able to finish very quickly on purpose, this whole situation has left me feeling exposed and uncomfortable while mom visited at home.

Has anyone ever been caught by their parents in a moment like this? How did you deal with the awkwardness afterwards? Especially when your mom reacts with pity instead of anger?

Would also appreciate any advice from guys who have experience with premature ejaculation during solo play. Is finishing this fast actually abnormal if I can control it to be that quick intentionally?

Thanks for reading. Just needed to get this off my chest.