u/nychungdl

37, 5’11, 160, nerdy white married guy in Brooklyn, happen to also be extremely well hung (and totally okay if you are not). My dream is to find a buddy is also married or partnered that I can chat with day by day as a good friend, and also meetup with when we both safely and discreetly can (I have a way to host in NYC if you can’t host)

Top two priorities: SAFETY AND PRIVACY. As long as we can keep it safe and discreet, I’m also really happy to share fantasies (and pics in reply) and other types of intimate male bonding. Both looking for an intimate and sexual space (kissing, cuddling, and maybe more if we build trust), but also being great friends and deeply supportive of each other emotionally.

I love Nintnedo switch, Star Wars, yoga, Buddhism, history, pets, and NYC, and lots about life in general 🤓

If you are looking for a secret friend with benefits that could be a steady long term presence in your life, message me and we can see if it’s a good fit : ) I can chat here or on telegram/snap. In your first message please include age and a basic description of what you look like and what you resonated with here.

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Good morning,

The last few months I have been trying to figure out how to put into words the unique kind of friendship I am hoping to find. Will do my best here.

I am 5’11, 160, thin, nerdy 🤓 white guy that is uniquely well hung (you will love it). When you see my face pic you’ll understand what I mean, I look nerdy lol, and I’ll be happy to verify my penis before we share face pics.

I am married and hoping to find another person who has a primary partner of some kind. For this to be sustainable long term, it is best that we both have a primary relationship so we are on the same page about privacy and safety.

Keeping this discreet and not getting an STI are extremely important priorities, and I want to make sure we are on the same page about those. For the same reasons, I am hoping to just find one long-term buddy to explore this with.

Day to day, it would be awesome to be able to chat/message back and forth with you (happy to use one of the more private messaging apps for this), some of my interests included video games (Nintendo switch), yoga, meditation, technology, history, NYC, pets, Star Wars (books, games, all of it lol), tv/movies, music, pets, and just life itself. Would also be awesome to let you see my penis every day and make pics and videos for you. I will absolutely want to see you regularly too (face, torso, butt, lips 🤓)

Sexually I am interested in going extremely slow and building a lot of intimacy. Also open to a big bro little bro roleplay. Kissing, cuddling, holding hands, massaging could be a great start. Eventually I would love to let you slowly and sensually worship me for long sessions (lol and maybe I play video games while you worship me). At the beginning I will genuinely be satisfied just kissing and cuddling for hours. Also would be amazing to be massaged.

It would be awesome if you could occasionally host but not required. My goal would be to try and chill in person once or twice a month, and then to stay in touch by chat and sharing pics and audio messages day by day.

It is not important to me that you are hung at all. I would love your age to be 27-47, in the NYC area, with space and desire for this kind of a connection in your life.

Just to help filter out folks who didn’t take the time read this, please include the following in your first messages to me. Age, a basic physical description or pics, approximate location, relationship status, and what resonated with you in this post.

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37, 5’11, 160, nerdy thin white married guy in Brooklyn, I happen to also be well hung and love getting appreciated down there. My dream is to find a local or visiting buddy who is also married or partnered that I can meet up with once or twice a month. The reason I want you to be married or partners is so we have the same priorities around privacy and safety.

I can host occasionally but would be awesome if you can host sometimes, or we can get a hotel room. Would be amazing to start off comparing size and low key jo side by side on the sofa, and depending on chemistry we can see how it evolves without pressure.

I love Nintnedo switch, Star Wars, yoga, Buddhism, history, pets, and NYC, and lots about life in general, and def open to connecting on that stuff but no worries if not.

If you are looking for a secret friend with benefits that could be a steady long term presence in your life, message me and we can see if it’s a good fit : ) happy to chat here or tele. If you DM me, let me know your age and a little about you in the first message (I won’t accept DM requests without age and basic info to be safe, trying to filter out folks who aren’t serious or compatible)

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37, 5’11, 160, nerdy thin white married guy in Brooklyn, I happen to also be extremely well hung. My dream is to find a buddy is also married or partnered that I can chat with day by day as a friend, and also meetup with when we both safely and discreetly can 2-3 times a month. Ideally you are 25-50 (I am not open to anyone under 25, but may be open to older than 50)

Safety (not getting an STI) and privacy (discreet, if we ever saw each other in public we don’t know each other) are the top priorities and will always be respected. Kindness too. I haven’t tried this in person yet, and am hoping to find one buddy to meet to maximize safety and privacy.

I can host early mornings here in Brooklyn and sometimes around 5-7pm, or come to you morning or afternoon.

As long as we can keep it safe and discreet, I’m also really happy to share fantasies and pics and other types of intimate male bonding. Would be amazing to start off comparing size and long jo session side by side on the sofa. Also open to a buddy who just wants to focus on me while I play video games. Also open to a buddy who just wants to massage me. Open to different ways this can all evolve with the right chemistry.

I love Nintnedo switch, Star Wars, yoga, Buddhism, history, pets, and NYC, and lots about life in general.

If you are looking for a secret friend with benefits that could be a steady long term positive presence in your life, message me and we can see if it’s a good fit : )

would be awesome if in your first message to me you include your age and a general description of your context (and what you look like), and what you’re looking for and what you resonated with in my post

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