u/oK_Orchid_2163

I (24F) really like being controlled but I want it to be like in a certain way. I want my BF (24M) to tell me to calm down, speak up, stay silent, drink water etc. Maybe even add clicker training as well as add whatever punishment he deemed fit. But I feel like my bf is a little too sweet for things like this. How do I bring this up to him without making him uncomfortable? I don't want him to feel like I'm pushing him out of his comfort zone, I'm too shy to ask.