u/only7Ben

I think married life after kids go to college is looking great for our marriage. Anyone have some insite?

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Well , I had a great talk with wife. I think things are already getting better, she is starting to be much more engaging and says she just wants to go slow. I totally agreed.

We tried reverse CG for 1st time and it was wonderful. Will keep some updates

Thank you to folks that responded. The chats were very helpful, especially the chat on where she is in her mind. Very encitful.

Had a great talk with my wife. She walked into the room and just took control and blew me away.

I am hoping this is a new start. It wasn't boring..... it was hot.

Daughter goes to college next week. Thinking sex life has turned around and woke up happily married again. Honestly, my wife is perfect for me. So glad she wants to be in our 20s again. Lol.

My wife of 25 years is so boring in bed. Thought she would get better over the years. Nope. Have talked nicely, Nadal. Help?

Love to chat

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My wife is the love of my life.

We have been together since 1999.

I don't want to disrespect her and type words that could hurt her. I will just describe some thoughts.

Same positions

No licking the Vag.

She never initiates

Moves my hands away from touching private parts during inter.

She just lays there, has multiple organisms, then hurries me to finish.

Never tries to turn me on, you know, when your women acts sexy and sensual.

She doesn't have any kinky things.

What I am interested in and was willing to try.

I'm just shy of 7.

So tried extention sleeve.

Vibrating sleeve.

She didn't like any.

Different positions.

Other than the bed.

Try to make her squirt.

Not allowed to enter with finger.

She just likes to cum 4-5 times and then dries up.

There have been several times I have had to stop and never get to finish.

My assessment:

I'm too horny.

My wife is never horny.

I have had Gfs, who were awesome at sex, but a horrible partner in life.

Have the best partner in life, but she needs to take notes from past GFs.

Not sure how to move forward.