[discussion] lessening the risk

i've been buying content for almost 7 years, mostly through OF, and for the majority of that time i've never spoke to other buyers and found out how they go about their business. i've been winging it as such without any advice. i only recently got back on reddit and started joining subs like this one and seeing other buyers talk about what to watch out for and different experiences they've had, good or bad, has been interesting. it seems like we all start noticing the same red/green flags creators give off. i'd be interested in hearing how buyers go about things and how do you check for red flags before subbing

my routine i've gotten in to after i spot someone i like is to check the profile on whichever platform it might be. using reddit as an example, i would click on their page and look at their numbers. i'm not really suspicious of high karma. there are accounts who are either terminally online or they've been around a long time. it's the low karma ones i'm suss about. anything that's like 3 years old with 2 karma, im not interested. it's either fake or a low effort creator. either way im not taking the risk. what's her posts like? are the captions "upvote this and i'll send nudes". do they post the same picture 50 times across different subs? do they hide their posts and comments? if an account shows any signs of those i'm not interested

moving on to their links, if they have x instagram or anything else i have a look through their profile. do they look genuine? then i check their OF or fansly, without subbing. i'm still getting used to fansly so i can't comment much on that but on OF the first thing i do is again look at the numbers. what's the likes to media ratio like? while there are genuine reasons why that ratio could be high without an agency being involved when the ratio is in the thousands i'm not taking the risk. there's exceptions but it's a good of thumb. what's the bio like? if they can't be arsed putting in effort to something like a bio then that doesn't fill me with confidence that their content will be much better. always scroll right down and read any disclaimers since there's been a recent trend of accounts literally saying "me and my team strive to give you the best experience....". MY TEAM being the important part there. are they pinging available? i'd watch for that over being available 24/7 or the availability being hidden. if they do, i avoid them

from there if all that seems fine i'll watch their account where i originally found them for a little bit. maybe a week or so. i'm just looking for how consistent and interactive they are. if all the signs are good then i sub. might seem a little overkill but all that lessens the risk i'm taking when i decide to sub. even after all that there's still things you need to watch out for and that deserves its own post but it gives me a much better chance of finding a legit creator who isn't using an agency or a chatter or isn't just a low effort page

so how does everyone else go about bringing down their risk before deciding to sub? what's good habits to get in to?

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u/ordinaryguy78 — 23 hours ago

[discussion] opinions on reviews

what's buyers opinions on doing reviews? i recently got a message from a creator im subscribed to thanking me for the review i did and letting me know it got her some attention from new buyers. just to clarify, there was no reward for it. i remember seeing a post somewhere else where a buyer was speaking about how much they like helping creators get some attention through reviews and i found myself agreeing with them. i've got a bit of a giving praise kink and i think i like doing reviews for that reason. i'm just interested in what reasons other buyers do reviews and do you feel a sense of satisfaction when you know it's steered some buyers their way

if you've been asked to do one and refused, what was your reasoning? creators might be interested in why some buyers don't want to do a review

also what do creators think about reviews? do you like getting one or do you see them as a waste of time? a few sellers have knocked back my offer of doing them a review. one or two have mentioned they don't like the attention they get from them. a lot of time wasters end up subbing and not buying anything

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u/ordinaryguy78 — 21 days ago

[discussion] false accusations

don't know if the mods will allow this but just a warning to not come at me with false accusations. on the post about buyers least favourite creators i mentioned im not a fan of femdom or findom. another creator asked why and i responded with what i thought was a reasonable answer. chloe for some reason wanted to jump in with false information. twice. one was accusing me of saying something about creators that i never said. when i asked for proof and pointed out its not a good look for a seller to be making false accusations her response was "you're so dramatic" and blocked me. im guessing she realised her mistake. could've just owned up to it and apologised. yes, i am dramatic when you want to lie about me without showing any proof. buyers get called out for the slightest mistake and get named and shamed so you better make sure you've got your facts right if you want to come after me

u/ordinaryguy78 — 26 days ago

[discussion] least favourite type of buyers

since there was a post for buyers to air any frustrations they have over what type of creators are their least favourite i'm interested to hear from sellers about what type of buyers are their least favourite. i'm sure there's less variation of buyers than sellers but what pisses you off about a client the most?

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u/ordinaryguy78 — 28 days ago

buyers reviews

maybe an odd question for here but i've noticed sellers posting reviews of buyers in this sub. what's the requirements for that? obviously buying from a seller is the main one but is there anything else i need to be aware of? i'm verified on the fetish buyers community sub if that makes a difference. also what would be the best way to ask a seller for a review? i'd like a review mainly so i've got something to refer to if a seller is unsure about me. i like customs but i understand if a new buyer comes in banging on about a custom straight away it can look suspicious. maybe having a reference would be handy

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u/ordinaryguy78 — 1 month ago

methods for buying content

i'm interested in hearing how other buyers go about buying content. i started about 6/7 years ago and for the majority of that time i've went through OF for stuff. i also use facebook (yes the dreaded FB) telegram and various other platforms here and there. whatsapp was a choice for a little while. i'm finding OF is getting stale and im struggling to find the type of creator i like on there. i've stuck with it because at least there's some form of verification, granted it's not always reliable. i tend to use telegram for one off ads or for content not allowed on OF but only with sellers i trust. i find tele very scammy. im not keen on fansly since i dont really understand the tiers. some creators on there aren't clear about what you're paying for. im looking for somewhere i can do payment and delivery without jumping across different platforms and would allow most types of content. peeing is a big one for me so that would be useful. so what methods are other buyers using for content buying?

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u/ordinaryguy78 — 1 month ago

cam sites

don't know if this is the right place to ask but i'm looking for what i know as "cam sites". i'm not experienced with them so excuse my ignorance. i'm looking for ones where i can indulge in mutual masturbation without paying massive fees. not really interested in any messaging. i like the randomness aspect of going on and finding women i don't know to have fun with. faceless ones would be fine

if this isn't the best place to ask can anyone give advice what subs i should be looking at?

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u/ordinaryguy78 — 3 months ago