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Being a newer Fetish Buyer particularly interested in worn items, I’ve reviewed so many different seller profiles and wanted to get some insight from other sellers and buyers on how they navigate through seller/buyer profiles.

I wanted to preface by saying this is just a discussion hoping to exchange information/ideas with both sellers and buyers to help each other benefit.

In my Fetish buying journey I’ve subscribed to many different subreddits and enjoy viewing all different kinds of sellers. But, I’ve noticed quite a lot of differences between them and how to interpret them.
Some examples of seller profiles below with some questions.

Seller profiles that have a large amount of Karma, say 3.5 million in a little more than 1 year or so as well as large amounts of contributions say around 47k in that same 1 year or so. Is the 3.5 million Karma within over a year possible? Or, is this their full time job and have the time do so?

Seller profiles that states in their comments that they only respond within those OF site. So, they are posting their profiles on Reddit to help promote their OF site? And in order to communicate with the seller is only by signing up to their OF site?

Sellers who have large gaps of posting to their profile, say 45 days was their last post but are active in the comments section. Is this reliable for buying purposes? That they just don’t post frequently?

Reddit offers Curator Profile to turn on/off content and activity. From reading Reddits reason is to help promote privacy. But, if a seller profile has it turned “off”. Should this be a red flag. Same goes with Buyer profiles I guess too?

I’ve seen a lot of seller profiles that have gorgeous high resolution pics and redgifs and while I understand not every seller is going to have that high level per se, but then see seller profiles that seem to have been taken very quickly? Not very sharp pics or resolution. Some sellers I’ve even seen some pics posted that were actually blurry. As a buyer, while visual images and redgifs are not the only thing, it does help with the initial view of the profiles.
Is there a middle ground or medium position here?

Regarding sellers OF sites. I’ve noticed sellers saying they don’t use ad agencies, that they reply/respond to every message. Is this possible with say the initial seller that I noted that with 3.5 million Karma. By signing up to their OF site, how can I tell they are personally responding to my message?

Again. Just a discussion with sellers and buyers to navigate through all of these wonderful sellers… and yes, some not so good (can be said about buyers as well) in the Fetish Buying Community.

This is a 5⭐ review for u/Any-Cardiologist-355, if you check her other reviews I'm sure you'll already have an idea of what I'm about to say but I needed to leave one myself.

I've worked with a few sellers before and she is easily the best, her communication was amazing, we spoke a lot before I even paid to make sure she had every little detail and we were on the same page. She even gave me a little bit of wiggle room on the price for an add-on specific to the request.

After I paid, she didn't ghost me like many sellers do and kept me completely up to date.

The turnaround time was insanely good, I requested what I thought was a pretty complicated video, it messy and involved yet she somehow managed to deliver it within 12 hours.

The actual content itself was basically perfect, she hit almost every detail I requested, every pose I requested and clearly understood the vibe perfectly.

The one thing that went wrong was that she forgot to use my name, however she immediately put it right by offering to remake the video with a small delay or refund me the price of the add-on. Which I think really shows how professional and genuine she is.

If you're thinking about it, I would highly recommend u/Any-Cardiologist-355. She was a pleasure to work with and I absolutely will be getting more customs from her in the future myself!

u/xheyxhey13

disappeared after payment

I purchase scat tubs from squishy, and they are amazing every time, she is very responsive and is quick at getting you what you need, very discreet packaging and not noticeable and locked in a tub and wrapped up, you get exactly what you want and the videos sent are great to watch aswell, i absolutely recommend buying from squishy, as she ships internationally for certain products and is very good at communicating where and when they arrive.
Thank you squishy_toaster97 :)

Bought my first pair of panties and the whole process was amazing! She's quick to respond and the shipping was incredibly quick and she gives you tracking info. The panties were absolutely incredible and the different range of scents was truly intoxicating. You won't be disappointed!
5⭐️

Had a couple sellers now verify but ghost me after payment
How can I tell what ones are genuine

I just paid for a custom we agreed upon and have been blocked instantly. Avoid. Can provide mods with screenshots

Is there a specific community for couples that sell content? I´ve tried looking but almost everyone does solo content. I desperately need a couple that i can trust.

Any advice would be helpful!

It’s been too long since I’ve encountered one in the sub. Most times I get the same exact creators commenting on every post, even when I say “back women “ preferred lol

Hello there lovely people! I hope everyone is doing well. I've had a question that's been on my mind for a while and been trying to figure out the best way to word it. So, after doing some digging I thought, maybe, here seemed like the right place to post to get some discussion going.

Some background: I have circled the world of buying content but never really took the dive. Reached out, made a few posts, talked to people but ultimately never jumped in. I've been trying to psychoanalyze myself and figure out what it is that ultimately stops me from making the jump.

Here is what I've basically come to: I'm not rich and don't have a lot to spare so, if I am going to spend money I want to make sure I'm getting exactly what I want. Part of that comes from a) knowing myself and then also from b) being confident in myself to express that in an appropriate way.

The number one thing I find myself wanting is for whatever it is to feel absolutely super personal to me. In a sense, that seller wouldn't give or do this for anyone except for me. That is not to say I am someone special that they adore over everyone else; not what I mean at all. Just that, in the moment, this was for me and me alone. I realize of course, that customs come with a higher price tag. So, again, I want to know what I'm getting is super personal and what I want and am happy with. Whether it's a picture, a video, a voicemail, a sexting session, a gfe, etc.

If I've ever put out the feelers for something like a GFE I feel like everyone says they want to make it feel real and like a connection and not some paid exchange but then after we chat a bit, and I do some research I realize any media they send is going to be premade and so, again, I loose that feeling of personal and connection immediately.

So, my question to you all is: how do you, personally, find ways to make a fulfillment personal and genuine for the person you are doing it for, if that's what they want?

On the seller side; empty accounts or accounts that has barely any activity try to solicit you by offering verification. and then as soon as money hits their account they dip, and despite warnings and reports here, buyers are still falling for this.

On the buyer side; people who pretend to be buyers reach out sellers, discuss service and right before payment, they say “ohh can you verify real quick??” and then as soon as they receive verification they ghost or block the seller.

It’s so much stupidity going around. As a seller, verification shouldn’t be the only thing you offer, and as a buyer if you’re reaching out to a verified seller, don’t waste their time by asking verification again. Thank you.

I’m finding it so hard to buy content at the moment. I post every week looking for a specific niche. It is a specific niche, I get that, but there seem to be lots of women providing for this niche. Yet, it’s been weeks since I was able to purchase anything… why?

1. approaching users directly - more often than not, I don’t get a reply. Why is this? What do I need to say to elicit a response? I’m direct and say I want a custom straight up. No time wasting. Yet, nothing.

2. maybe it’s because I need to join their OF/fansly? Ok. I do that. Send a message. Yet still, nothing. What is going on?

3. let’s post on FWA - be specific. Many people not reading the post. “Oh did you say that? Oh I didn’t read it.” I literally put a test question in the middle of the post and it’s ignored showing how sellers not reading the post…

4. my fetish involves armpit hair so I need it a certain length. So many sellers are “I’m hairy!” And then it turns out they’re not. Many sellers not even getting this far because they didn’t read that I need a certain length. I get they don’t want to give away the goods for free so I ask for disappearing pics and even then, reticence or ghosted.

5. when I finally meet sellers who are available, and tick my boxes… ghosted. I’ve literally asked for payment details and been ghosted. I’m trying to pay you first. And you’re ghosting. Wow. If you can’t make it, tell me. Changed your mind, that’s fine. Why am
   I ghosted?!

6. the last videos I got, a month ago, I was not happy with the product. I asked for them to be remade. Again, ghosted.

7. ok. How about old sellers? Went back a couple of times. One was ok (I wasn’t specific enough in my request tbf) One, ghosted. Is it me?! I always think I’m being respectful. Is it because of m too direct?

I know I need specific things for my fetish. But, the communication from sellers right now is really getting on my goat!!

My partner (JoJo Jezebel) and I bought a custom funny video from u/GiantessJosie. We were absolutely stunned by how fun and talented she is as a creator!! Not to mention incredibly 🔥

What made the video so special is that I basically described a theme for the video without giving a script, and Josie perfectly captured the silly, whimsical, and ridiculousness of the request. Her British accent was perfect and charming and sly. She improvised for 5 minutes around a silly prompt and when we watched the video, we laughed so hard before jumping each other😅.

All of the pre-video conversation was great/easy and she made the video super quickly.

GiantessJosie is incredibly talented and you should definitely get her for a video!!

I'm a relatively new fetish buyer who is predominantly interested in worn panties. While I recognise that a longer wear length typically produces a stronger scent, I have been wondering, is there a point where the returns start to diminish? For example, is a 7-day wear likely to have a noticeably stronger smell than a 5-day wear? How about 5 days compared to 3 or 4? I've previously only bought 1-2 days worn panties just to dip my toe into buying, but the smell wasn't strong enough for me with a wear of that length. Generally, should I be looking for a 5-7 day wear for the strongest scent possible (which is what I'm looking for pretty much)? Also does a no-shower addon make a big difference if the seller offers it? I've only found a few who are willing to do that.

Had a pretty niche custom that needed to be filled and it was done to perfection! Clear communication as to timeframes and asked relevant questions to ensure the video fit my needs!

Content was delivered at the agreed time and was per the request. She picked up the vibe of the video really well, making it flow authentically. She is a pleasure to work with and and would recommend u/kinkybrowneyez

Paid her got verification video and everything before. 5 minutes after I paid she blocked me on here and telegram.
I have screenshots for proof as well.

u/OliviaJo05

I recently bought a GFE with this lovely lady u/kinkybrowneyez at the end of last week, and my god is she awesome!

First of all, she is so accommodating with her prices, this isn’t just GFE, this is all the stuff she offers. Just give her a price and she’ll try and make it work, she’s got such a kind heart and is soooo understanding, so yeah don’t be afraid to ask basically.

She is so unbelievably beautiful, and also hella naughty, she will be able to match any personality you want her to match, from what I’ve seen she’s this bubbly happy woman all the time.

Her availability is great, whatever your buying she’ll make time for you, her communication about not being available is also amazing.

She offers a great range of stuff:
Obviously GFE (stay away from that she’s mine)
Sexting
Custom content
Role play/kinks/fetishes
Sells panties
Rates
She has got sooooo many pre mades it’s actually crazy
And like I’ve said above, she’s so fair with her prices, and if you think they are unfair even then she is open to negotiate.

But yeah as a summary, she is the absolute best seller I’ve come across, hands down. I’m having such a good time with her, you seriously will not regret buying from her whatever you do choose to buy.

Just don’t mess her around, it’s the last thing she deserves ❤️

I purchased a short reaction custom video from u/Giantessjosie, and she was perfect in every part of the process.

Her communication is exceptional. Fast enthusiastic responses, with a very quick turnaround on the custom itself. She even took the care to ask questions to make sure she had the right idea of what I wanted, before delivering exactly that. Oh, and she’s gorgeous of course.

Go ahead and buy yourself a custom from Josie, you won’t regret it.

u/SUZIEGODDESS and I have been collaborating on chainsaw customs for about a month now. Yesterday she film a great custom for me and then after we talked about it I asked her a different tone the next time she filmed one. I asked if we do another right away, and she was more than willing! Two in one day is unheard of it, but it shows how committed she is to her buyers! Both scenes were awesome! I appreciate how she takes the time to get to know the exact needs and wants I have for scenes. We have more customs in the pipeline and she is going all out to make my white whale chainsaw custom perfect!

I've worked with u/JojoJezebel on multiple custom videos now, and wow the experience with her is something else. She is so easy and forthcoming when you talk with her and she has this energy which just draws you in. Not once do you feel like she is cold and impatient, she lets you take your time, even if you are hesitant. She lets you explain what you want in terms of specifics or script or just the general theme of your idea. She asks great questions during the discussion, but its always questions that actually makes sense. She will let you know if something is off with anything for her, or if its something that she really loves, and always gives great feedback on the ideas, if its good or bad. She is so easy to talk to and she is more than willing to help you create your idea if you dont have the full picture yet. Not once have I had any delays from her, she always informs me at the moment of payment when she will be doing this video and not once has she given me any excuses or any delays. Its really rare to find a seller than just understands when you ask for something really specific, like recording angles etc. Every video has been incredible, and every video has eclipsed the last, wow what a person she is. The amount of love and care she puts into her work is clearly noticeable and is highly appreciated. Its rare that I get lost in the videos I watch, but the rollercoaster she takes you on is incredible. Ive never given her a lot of information for videos, Ive always given her short talking points and the theme of what I see the video as. She has taken those and expanded and poked at new things I never thought about before and just made a masterpiece every single time. She is an incredible seller which Ive been really blessed to get to work with and I cannot recommend her enough to anyone who is looking at her. She has received so much glowing reviews lately, so if she pops up in your ads, and she is to your liking, you wont be disappointed. Or even reach out to her directly with your idea and watch the magic begin. Five stars is the limit I can give, but its not even close to what she deserves. I love working with her and I hope she wants to make so much more content for me going forward!