As the title says, I commissioned a custom audio a month or two ago on another platform from a seller (the seller doesn't sell on Reddit and isn't in this community, while the platform is a niche Dutch community, hence why I'm not sharing names here as it feels superfluous). After a great deal of hassle with contacting the seller as well as their changing the deadline a couple of times), they finally gave me the custom...but at half the agreed upon length (i.e. 5 minutes instead of 9-10). Needless to say, I am not a satisfied customer. At least, not fully.

I'm torn, because on the one hand, I did receive what I asked for, at least sort of. And I don't want to be one of those scummy buyers that demands a refund or a redo for no good reason. But on the other hand, I also feel that the custom being 50% shorter than agreed upon is a valid reason to at least ask for a retake - but I'm not fully certain what the etiquette is in this case. So I thought I'd ask here for opinions.

I hope you all are staying hydrated and cool, and that you all have a lovely week.

I'll start with the good stuff, AmyWifey94 is super easy to talk to and approachable.

She was friendly throughout all of our interactions and when I chased her for updates she gave me updates.

However my experience with her has not been the best hence the 2 stars.

I approached AmyWifey94 to order a custom video with some specific kink talking points and name use to be included.

I paid extra to have my name used and she also mentioned that she would wear a nice outfit for the video. I paid promptly and was told that the video would be delivered "in the hour" which I thought was awesome.

Fast forward over an hour and the video still wasn't delivered, not an issue though I just messaged to see how things were going and was told that she'd gotten busy with live sessions and would deliver it soon.

Meanwhile I could see she was actively posting on Reddit and responding to other ads.

A few hours after that though, the video was delivered and was far from what I asked for.

My name wasn't used and there was almost none of the kink talking as we discussed and agreed prior to me paying. The whole video felt extremely rushed.

I explained this to AmyWifey when she asked my thoughts, I was honest and said that we probably wouldn't work together in the future. She eventually responded saying she would make a new video in the next few hours for me,

shorter but would include my name request.

However I never received that re-made video so I can only assume she didn't make it.

Overall it was not a great experience and right now I couldn't recommend u/amywifey94 to buy custom content from.

I have worked with Jade a few times over the last several years and she has continued to not only provide top quality content but, she is also a very sweet provider to work with and communicates things exceptionally well. All of her videos are very high quality with good lighting and she does a stellar job at producing what you ask for. I have personally worked with many providers over years of being a buyer and Jade is one of the very few providers I have continuously worked with. I highly recommend her to anyone looking for top quality content from a kind individual.

I’m not sure anyone who approaches you this way is legit? Usually they message you and immediately share their telegram user, or they insist on switching to telegram after a couple of texts.

Is it because telegram is their preferred messaging app or it’s so easy delete everything on telegram? Or is it something else?

After a long break, I came back to the community. My reason for leaving was too much unprofessional sellers, bad delivery times, endless delays and sub par content. But I come back to find that most of my previous regular, all time favorite sellers are now on the ban list, a good majority of sellers who responds to ads are unverified, I get 40-odd DM's after every post. Has anything drastically happened in the last year?

I've been given some clue that a lot of sellers got shadowbanned and makes new accounts, therefore low account age and no reviews. Did Reddit do a clean up of nsfw accounts?

I've had some good luck with sellers this time around, I've found three really great sellers. I had to do so much more research and double checking the ban lists. I've also had some bad ones, really bad content, delay after delay. I don't mind delays at all, but the ghosting until its way to late to even care anymore, then get delivered content which is at best sub par.

I'm just wondering if something has happened the last year, like huge things?

Ordered a custom video from her and the communication was fluid and she responded pretty quickly to all messages. We had some issues getting payments sorted out but overall wasn't a big problem.

When I got the custom video that I had ordered there were some requests that were ignored (like the POV i had requested) and some that just weren't done very well (I asked for some things to be a fairly dominant part of the video that were only briefly done)

The seller delivered the content in a prompt time. Very appreciated from that stand point.

However.. the content delivered wasn't directly as requested. It missed a key component that was discussed. I also couldn't really see what she was doing due to her being laid side on to the camera for the whole video. I could see very small snippets but it was difficult to enjoy due to a missed key detail of my request. And the side on view where no real action could be fully seen and enjoyed.

Edit. A second attempt of the video has been done. And the content was great. Things have been much improved post feedback given!

Am I the only buyer who doesn't even bother with OnlyFans anymore?

In my experience, the vast majority of creators who are primarily directing buyers to OF without any other platform or SM options are either "text only" and mostly communicating through mass messages, or their menu is *extremely* limited.

I hate to be accusatory, but it really does seem like the "OF-only" creators aren't really creators. They're attractive and they know it, and they're banking on enough buyers to subscribe to OF at $5.99/month to make some easy, effort-free money.

To be clear, I'm only talking about creators who are directing buyers to OF almost exclusively. Furthermore, I respect the hustle! I'm not judging whatsoever. I just know that I basically skip over model profiles that don't have a few options for DM'ing to discuss services. It's a clear indication to me that there is essentially zero chance for a solid menu.

I'm genuinely curious to get the perspective of both buyers and sellers on this; I don't want to be too close-minded because I know from experience that you never know where you might find your next favorite creator!

This is what happens most of the times:

1- I waste time discussing a custom with a seller and it turns out they don't do the fetish that was described in the post or they don't accept any of the payment methods listed

2- a seller says they can send the video in a few hours and then they keep coming up with excuses for days. I almost reported 2 sellers because of this. They were not scammers but it looked like it, especially because I could see them commenting on other posts in the meantime. One sent me a clearly edited pic to show me that "telegram wasn't sending the video" 🤣

I know it's pointless to call them out since I already paid. So I have to wait and listen to their bullshit

3- I want customs with dirty talk, and I ask specifically for a native english speaker. I got videos by girls who don't know English, girls who just read out loud my video description (not a script) and 3 times I got sellers who didn't even bother to switch off the TV while talking!!

I seems many sellers are just looking to get quick and easy money with minimal effort, and it really sucks to waste 100$ on a completely useless video.

I’ve had so many bad experiences that I've become super selective and I only order 2-3 minutes customs from new sellers to limit the risk 😅

Reddit Username: u/sophiegrace33

Stage Name: Sophiegrace

Age: 20-24

Location: NY

u/Sophiegrace33

1. What types of adult content do you currently provide?

I offer a little bit of everything! Worn items are definitely my most popular, with panties, socks, and shoes being customer favorites. I also have specialty items like pillowcases, gum, eggs, vials, pops, and more. Along with physical items, I offer GFE and a variety of fetish-friendly content, including customs, photos, try-ons, ratings, and play videos. I'm also just starting to explore findom and sexting, which has been a lot of fun so far!

2. Which Communities are your favorite to list your products and services to?

My favorite communities to list in are definitely the Fetish Playhouse subreddits! I spend a lot of time in communities like r/pantyobsession, r/usedpanties4u, and r/gymsocks . Outside of FPH, I also enjoy posting in r/gstrings and especially r/athleticfeetandsocks, which I help moderate alongside an amazing group of women. That said, my main profile feed is still my go-to. I love having one place where buyers can see everything I offer, get to know my personality, and keep up with my latest content and listings.

3. Are there any other selling platforms that you use outside of Reddit?

Yes! Right now I also use OnlyFans alongside Reddit. By the time this interview is posted, I may have added a few more platforms to the mix. Reddit is always home base where I'm most active.

4. For how long have you been selling fetish items? How did you find out about it in the first place? Tell us a little about your personal story and how you came to selling fetish products and services.

I've been selling fetish items for about a year now, starting in April 2025. I discovered this side while doing some academic research on pheromones, scent attraction, and the psychology behind why people enjoy certain sensory experiences. The more I learned, the more fascinated I became by the community and the connections people build through it. I started out selling just worn socks, but as time went on, I expanded my horizons quite a bit. As my love for creating content and providing products grew, so did the variety of things I offered. What began as a small curiosity turned into something I genuinely enjoy, both creatively and personally. Over the past year I've learned so much, gained confidence in the industry, and continue to grow.

5. Are you open about providing fetish services online with people in your personal life, or is this something that you choose to keep a secret?

Let's just say my close friends are under the impression that I only sell feet pics, and I'm happy to let them keep thinking that. 😂 I've found a balance that works for me between my personal life and my online world.

6. Is this your main source of income or a sideline? If this is a side hustle, what field are you in for your career?

Right now, selling is still a side hustle for me. My full time job is waitressing, which definitely keeps me busy! That said, one of my biggest goals is to eventually grow this into a full time career. I genuinely love creating content, connecting with people, and providing products and services that make others happy, so being able to do that full-time would be a dream come true. For now, I'm enjoying the journey and continuing to grow little by little while balancing both worlds.

7. So what about your free time? What are your hobbies, what are you passionate about? What do you spend your time with when you're not online pushing your goods?

You'll probably find me outside in the sun basically a lizard on a rock, I love the heat and spending as much time outdoors as possible. I'm also a pretty crafty person. I enjoy making bracelets and creating little handmade projects, and I've even incorporated some of that into my orders. I'm a huge music lover too, and I enjoy going to concerts and festivals whenever I get the chance. One thing many people don't know about me is that I was studying psychology with the goal of becoming a therapist specializing in schizophrenia and depression. I put school on hold to help care for a family member, but it's something I'd love to finish one day. Mental health has always been something I'm passionate about, and I hope to continue that in the future.

8. What are your goals for the future, where do you see yourself in 5 years?

In five years, I'd love to have grown this into my full time job. I genuinely enjoy creating content, connecting with people, and building something that's my own, so being able to support myself through this would be amazing. At the same time, one of my biggest goals is to go back to school, earning that degree is still very important to me. Ideally, I'd love for this to help support me while I finish my education. Who knows? Maybe this will continue to grow beyond anything I imagined, and if it does, that's incredible. But regardless of where life takes me, I still want to finish school. I love learning, I love understanding people, and I think having that educational background is something I'll always value.

9. Tell us about your favorite type of customer. What criteria do they have that makes them a pleasure to work with?

My favorite customers are the ones who take the time to read my profile before messaging me and I can definitely tell. I love when someone reaches out with a clear idea of what they're looking for and is ready to have an open conversation. I'm a very organized person when it comes to selling, so I really appreciate buyers who communicate well and have a similar approach.

10. Tell us something about your average customer. What kind of person buys your stuff? How old are they? Are they single or in a relationship? How can we imagine them?

I get all kinds of customers, since Reddit is anonymous, I don't ask or push for details about their personal lives unless they choose to share them. What I can say is that I've been lucky to attract some amazing, respectful buyers. A lot of my customers are regulars, and over time we've built our own individual connections that go beyond buying and selling. That's one of my favorite parts of what I do.

11. Tell us about your weirdest experience so far as an adult content provider.

I wouldn’t say I’ve had anything truly crazy, but I’ve definitely had my fair share of unexpected or unusual requests that made me pause for a second and laugh. A lot of the time it just reminds me how diverse people are and how different everyone’s interests can be. I try to keep things light, respectful, and fun no matter what comes my way.

12. Have you ever connected with a buyer beyond buying/selling?

Yes, I have a few buyers I’ve connected with beyond just buying and selling. Over time, we’ve built a more friendly relationship and we’ll message each other regularly about everyday life and things that have nothing to do with this work.

13. What's the biggest misconception about sex work? What's the worst prejudice?

Id say that this kind of work is easy or doesn’t take much effort. In reality, it’s a lot of communication, time management, creativity, and emotional energy to keep everything organized and running. The worst prejudice is that it’s somehow “less than” real work. People don’t always see how much goes into it behind the scenes, but it really does take consistency, professionalism, and effort just like any other job.

14. How important is staying anonymous to you? Do you show your face? Have you ever met a customer in person?

Staying anonymous is pretty important to me. I’ve never met a customer in person, and I prefer to keep things online only. I also live in a small town, so keeping my personal life separate from my work life is something I take seriously. I’ve just recently started showing my face, but I’m still very mindful about privacy and boundaries.

15. What is your favorite product or service to provide?

My favorites are definitely try-on videos, ratings, GFE, and Tenga eggs.

16. What do you enjoy most about doing this, what makes it fun to you and what has kept you going?

I like being able to take ideas and make them come to life, whether that’s content, customs, or providing safe clean fetish items delivered to your door. It’s also the variety that keeps it fun, no two days or requests are the same. The connections I’ve made and the regulars I talk to have definitely kept me going too.

17. What don't you enjoy so much about doing this? What are the downsides in your opinion?

One of the harder parts is that it can be time consuming and mentally draining at times, especially when trying to stay organized and keep up with messages and custom requests. It’s also a job where you have to be very self motivated, so balancing everything can get overwhelming if you don’t stay on top of it.

18. Are there any fetishes or kinks that you discovered from the community and ended up really enjoying?

Yeah, I’ve definitely picked up fetishes through the community that I didn’t really know much about before. I’ve found I like a more dominant energy in my content, which kind of developed over time.

19. Is there anything you were hoping we would ask, but didn't? Anything that really needs to be addressed? What did we forget?

No, I think we covered everything. I don’t feel like anything is missing or needs to be added, I’m happy with how the questions covered my experience.

20. And what's the answer to these very important final questions? Any last words for us, anything important we didn't touch on so far?

Just a thank you for the opportunity to be featured. I really appreciate being able to share my experience and a bit about myself. Overall, I just want to say I take what I do seriously and put a lot of care into it. I value my buyers, my boundaries, and the connections I’ve made along the way. I’m excited to keep growing and see where things go from here.

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I posted in r/FetishWantAds and u/CreamQueasy6631 responded. Her communication was excellent in determining exactly what I wanted in the video and throughout the process in general.

She delivered an incredible custom vid. I'd recommend using her for any of your digital needs.

So i had posted an ad for a bbw custom and u/Thick_isa reached out claiming she could do it. We talked on telegram and suddenly she says she couldn't do the custom that i wanted for that long??? I was nice enough to let it slide, but then she tried to make me buy a gfe for 90 dollars which was above my budget, i rejected it and she tried to claim that i was a minor 😬. If you value communication stay away from this seller!

To summarize: I requested a lesbian video from this user. She and her partner sent a verification video stating my name, at which point I paid via Cashapp. She then became immediately unresponsive for multiple days at a time, each time coming back with an excuse regarding her reason for not recording or sending the content. At last I messaged her on an alternate account, requesting the same content, and she was immediately responsive - I informed her that I'd already purchased her content, at which point she deleted our entire Telegram chat and pretended to have never spoken to me.

I’ve worked with countless creators, and I can confidently say that u/CreamQueasy6631 is one of the very best. You will not find many sellers that compare to her.

She’s obviously insanely hot and her figure is perfect. But more importantly, her communication couldn’t be better. She responds quickly, keeps you updated throughout the entire process, and is incredibly reliable. She’s also one of the most genuine, kind, and honest people I’ve had the pleasure of working with.

I’ve purchased plenty of customs/premades from her over the past month, and every single one has exceeded my expectations. She has incredible attention to detail and puts effort into making sure each custom is exactly what you asked for.

I can’t recommend u/CreamQueasy6631 enough. Definitely check her out, you won’t be disappointed.

As the title says, generally with a new buyer, don’t know exactly what you’ll get, I’ve had some disappointments, generally it’s because of the scent is not strong enough for me.
But the nervousness in the excitement of receiving the package in the mail and you do the process of opening it, and when it’s a pair that is exactly what you wanted I could generally fill it in the tip of my penis!lol.
Even with a seller that I have bought from multiple times I still get that rush of what they provided for me.
And I feel like I’ve upped my masturbation game with the panties that I get I use my oculus rift to watch porn and use the panties for extra stimulation, even better if I have bought a masturbation video from seller and use their panties while I watch the masturbate, which I think is awesome.
Just curious, if any of the other buyers out there in this community feel the same way?

This was my first custom from u/Bitch_titts69, but I’ve bought custom content before. She was amazing!

I wasn’t totally sure about all the little details I wanted. I mostly just told her the general themes and vibes I was hoping for. It wasn’t the most straightforward request, but she made it really easy. Her communication was lovely, super quick, and really sweet! She asked good questions and worked with me to get exactly what I had in mind.

The final result turned out even better than I had hoped! She is absolutely gorgeous, and her voice is truly hypnotic! I couldn’t be happier with it. I’ll absolutely be ordering from her again, and I can’t recommend her enough!

Edit: spelling

Have bought a couple of pairs of worn knickers from lilith now and and all I can day is wow. Anyone considering buying from her will not be disappointed. Her communication from start to finish was excellent and u will 100% buy from her again.

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My fantasy is a tough one to nail in real time and I have to say she made it work!!

Strong points:
- She responded quickly to my message and provided relevant answers. Provided verification and accepted my AV.
- Stuck to budget (even got the optional/conditional +$30) in a different way than I expected but it worked out even better!!
- Knows how to interact and play off of cues <3 From start to finish.
- Was deliciously mean and played her role well as a mean bitch in the content replies.
- Fulfilled most of the technical details and platform media usage (audio notes, clips, photos) to a very good immersive degree.
- Did go extra mile to edit photos/videos for the immersion play. (censors, menu text edits/additions, even working around secret chat on telegram since u can't screenshot and i forgot that detail..)

Weak points:
- Only one I have is confusion on a technical menu addition (charged per pixel --censored stuff?)

Overall, a great experience and you should contact her asap!

I had the pleasure of working with u/Charming_Cause_3754 on a custom fetish video and she was amazing!
The video quality was great, the transaction was smooth and turn around was quick!
What stuck out to me was she took the extra effort to make sure she understood what I was looking for, then went above and beyond in the video. Communication was too-tier!

She’s an A++ creator and you should all check her out!