How do you personlize?
Hello there lovely people! I hope everyone is doing well. I've had a question that's been on my mind for a while and been trying to figure out the best way to word it. So, after doing some digging I thought, maybe, here seemed like the right place to post to get some discussion going.
Some background: I have circled the world of buying content but never really took the dive. Reached out, made a few posts, talked to people but ultimately never jumped in. I've been trying to psychoanalyze myself and figure out what it is that ultimately stops me from making the jump.
Here is what I've basically come to: I'm not rich and don't have a lot to spare so, if I am going to spend money I want to make sure I'm getting exactly what I want. Part of that comes from a) knowing myself and then also from b) being confident in myself to express that in an appropriate way.
The number one thing I find myself wanting is for whatever it is to feel absolutely super personal to me. In a sense, that seller wouldn't give or do this for anyone except for me. That is not to say I am someone special that they adore over everyone else; not what I mean at all. Just that, in the moment, this was for me and me alone. I realize of course, that customs come with a higher price tag. So, again, I want to know what I'm getting is super personal and what I want and am happy with. Whether it's a picture, a video, a voicemail, a sexting session, a gfe, etc.
If I've ever put out the feelers for something like a GFE I feel like everyone says they want to make it feel real and like a connection and not some paid exchange but then after we chat a bit, and I do some research I realize any media they send is going to be premade and so, again, I loose that feeling of personal and connection immediately.
So, my question to you all is: how do you, personally, find ways to make a fulfillment personal and genuine for the person you are doing it for, if that's what they want?