Hi, I’m a 29M based in Boston. I’m 5'10", around 150lb. I have light brown skin, brown eyes, and short black hair with short mustache and beard. I have an average/lightly muscular body. I like a mix of active hobbies and nerdier indoor ones.

A bit about what I’m into:

• Gym & fitness: Mostly weightlifting with some cardio. I’m getting into yoga and want to try more fun/intense classes like spin.
• Tennis: I play about once a week and try to keep it up all year. If you’re new to tennis, I’m more than happy to teach.
• Skiing: Usually in the Northeast, with one or two trips out West every year. Ideally, I’d love a ski partner to spend the day on the mountain with and relax together afterward. I would be happy to introduce you to it.
• Video & board games: I play a lot of multiplayer games to stay connected with friends I don’t see often. I also enjoy both simple and complex board games.
• Reading: I read a mix of fiction(literary, sci-fi, fantasy) and non fiction. I’m always down for a two-person book club.
• Movies: I generally like most non action movies, and particularly enjoy good indie movies or anything coming out of A24.
• Cooking & food: I’m an adventurous eater and love exploring new cuisines. I started cooking a lot more during COVID and want to keep improving. Cooking together sounds perfect.

I'm generally pretty open minded and would love to find new things to enjoy together, so feel free to introduce me to your hobbies too.

Career & lifestyle:

I graduated with a computer engineering/computer science degree and work as a software developer for a big tech company on a hybrid schedule. It gives me room to travel, so long-distance within the US/Canada is possible if the intention is to eventually relocate. Ideally, you have your own career path or are working toward one.

Relationship & dynamic:

I’m a very affectionate partner and love showing it when it’s wanted and reciprocated. I want a relationship where we’re genuinely excited about each other, thinking about one another when we wake up and before we fall asleep. If you enjoy nighttime calls or FaceTime, that’s a plus.

I’m laid back, enjoy humor in every situation, and get along best with people who have a goofy, playful side. I date with long-term intent and would love to find someone I can build a future, a home, and eventually a small family with. I was raised Catholic but don’t currently practice, though I’m open to reconnecting with it if it matters to you.

My dynamic:

I’ve been a Daddy Dom for a few years and connect best with partners who enjoy a nurturing, structured, emotionally intimate style of dynamic. I’m drawn to clingy, affectionate girls who want someone steady, attentive, and grounding in their life. I’ve been told I have a calming presence, and I really enjoy the gentle, caring aspects of DDLG, comfort, closeness, routines, and supportive guidance.

A strong emotional connection is important to me in any dynamic, and I value aftercare and communication. If you’re new, curious, or shy about DDLG, I’m patient and happy to go at a pace that feels safe and comfortable. I’m also open to having a light dynamic outside of the bedroom. Nothing overly intense, just enough structure to feel meaningful and the dynamic to always feel present.

Kinks I enjoy:

• Praise
• Affectionate Humiliation/Degradation
• Spanking/Light slapping
• Roleplaying
• Dollification
• Breeding
• Sleep play
• Coercion/Fear play
• Oral fixation
• Deepthroating
• Light bondage
• Size kink/over powering
• Orgasm control/denial/ruin
• Some taboo kinks that I am happy to discuss privately.

Boundaries & preferences:

I’m open-minded and willing to explore, but I have clear limits around anything involving injury, lasting marks, or anything that’s unsafe.

My only physical preference is that you’re on the slimmer/average side, but personality, emotional compatibility, and enthusiasm for the dynamic matter far more.

If this resonates with you, or if you’re someone who feels that clingy, affectionate side waiting for the right person, reach out! If not, good luck on your search.

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29 [M4F] #Boston/USA Possessive Daddy Dom Looking for Affectionate and Needy Princess

Hi, I’m a 29M based in Boston. I’m 5'10", around 150lb. I have light brown skin, brown eyes, and short black hair with short mustache and beard. I have an average/lightly muscular body. I like a mix of active hobbies and nerdier indoor ones.

A bit about what I’m into:

• Gym & fitness: Mostly weightlifting with some cardio. I’m getting into yoga and want to try more fun/intense classes like spin.
• Tennis: I play about once a week and try to keep it up all year. If you’re new to tennis, I’m more than happy to teach.
• Skiing: Usually in the Northeast, with one or two trips out West every year. Ideally, I’d love a ski partner to spend the day on the mountain with and relax together afterward. I would be happy to introduce you to it.
• Video & board games: I play a lot of multiplayer games to stay connected with friends I don’t see often. I also enjoy both simple and complex board games.
• Reading: I read a mix of fiction(literary, sci-fi, fantasy) and non fiction. I’m always down for a two-person book club.
• Movies: I generally like most non action movies, and particularly enjoy good indie movies or anything coming out of A24.
• Cooking & food: I’m an adventurous eater and love exploring new cuisines. I started cooking a lot more during COVID and want to keep improving. Cooking together sounds perfect.

I'm generally pretty open minded and would love to find new things to enjoy together, so feel free to introduce me to your hobbies too.

Career & lifestyle:

I graduated with a computer engineering/computer science degree and work as a software developer for a big tech company on a hybrid schedule. It gives me room to travel, so long-distance within the US/Canada is possible if the intention is to eventually relocate. Ideally, you have your own career path or are working toward one.

Relationship & dynamic:

I’m a very affectionate partner and love showing it when it’s wanted and reciprocated. I want a relationship where we’re genuinely excited about each other, thinking about one another when we wake up and before we fall asleep. If you enjoy nighttime calls or FaceTime, that’s a plus.

I’m laid back, enjoy humor in every situation, and get along best with people who have a goofy, playful side. I date with long-term intent and would love to find someone I can build a future, a home, and eventually a small family with. I was raised Catholic but don’t currently practice, though I’m open to reconnecting with it if it matters to you.

My dynamic:

I’ve been a Daddy Dom for a few years and connect best with partners who enjoy a nurturing, structured, emotionally intimate style of dynamic. I’m drawn to clingy, affectionate girls who want someone steady, attentive, and grounding in their life. I’ve been told I have a calming presence, and I really enjoy the gentle, caring aspects of DDLG, comfort, closeness, routines, and supportive guidance.

A strong emotional connection is important to me in any dynamic, and I value aftercare and communication. If you’re new, curious, or shy about DDLG, I’m patient and happy to go at a pace that feels safe and comfortable. I’m also open to having a light dynamic outside of the bedroom. Nothing overly intense, just enough structure to feel meaningful and the dynamic to always feel present.

Kinks I enjoy:

• Praise
• Affectionate Humiliation/Degradation
• Spanking/Light slapping
• Roleplaying
• Dollification
• Breeding
• Sleep play
• Coercion/Fear play
• Oral fixation
• Deepthroating
• Light bondage
• Size kink/over powering
• Orgasm control/denial/ruin
• Some taboo kinks that I am happy to discuss privately.

Boundaries & preferences:

I’m open-minded and willing to explore, but I have clear limits around anything involving injury, lasting marks, or anything that’s unsafe.

My only physical preference is that you’re on the slimmer/average side, but personality, emotional compatibility, and enthusiasm for the dynamic matter far more.

If this resonates with you, or if you’re someone who feels that clingy, affectionate side waiting for the right person, reach out! If not, good luck on your search.

Hi, I’m a 29M based in Boston. I’m 5'10", around 150lb. I have light brown skin, brown eyes, and short black hair with short mustache and beard. I have an average/lightly muscular body. I like a mix of active hobbies and nerdier indoor ones.

A bit about what I’m into:

• Gym & fitness: Mostly weightlifting with some cardio. I’m getting into yoga and want to try more fun/intense classes like spin.
• Tennis: I play about once a week and try to keep it up all year. If you’re new to tennis, I’m more than happy to teach.
• Skiing: Usually in the Northeast, with one or two trips out West every year. Ideally, I’d love a ski partner to spend the day on the mountain with and relax together afterward. I would be happy to introduce you to it.
• Video & board games: I play a lot of multiplayer games to stay connected with friends I don’t see often. I also enjoy both simple and complex board games.
• Reading: I read a mix of fiction(literary, sci-fi, fantasy) and non fiction. I’m always down for a two-person book club.
• Movies: I generally like most non action movies, and particularly enjoy good indie movies or anything coming out of A24.
• Cooking & food: I’m an adventurous eater and love exploring new cuisines. I started cooking a lot more during COVID and want to keep improving. Cooking together sounds perfect.

I'm generally pretty open minded and would love to find new things to enjoy together, so feel free to introduce me to your hobbies too.

Career & lifestyle:

I graduated with a computer engineering/computer science degree and work as a software developer for a big tech company on a hybrid schedule. It gives me room to travel, so long-distance within the US/Canada is possible if the intention is to eventually relocate. Ideally, you have your own career path or are working toward one.

Relationship & dynamic:

I’m a very affectionate partner and love showing it when it’s wanted and reciprocated. I want a relationship where we’re genuinely excited about each other, thinking about one another when we wake up and before we fall asleep. If you enjoy nighttime calls or FaceTime, that’s a plus.

I’m laid back, enjoy humor in every situation, and get along best with people who have a goofy, playful side. I date with long-term intent and would love to find someone I can build a future, a home, and eventually a small family with. I was raised Catholic but don’t currently practice, though I’m open to reconnecting with it if it matters to you.

My dynamic:

I’ve been a Daddy Dom for a few years and connect best with partners who enjoy a nurturing, structured, emotionally intimate style of dynamic. I’m drawn to clingy, affectionate girls who want someone steady, attentive, and grounding in their life. I’ve been told I have a calming presence, and I really enjoy the gentle, caring aspects of DDLG, comfort, closeness, routines, and supportive guidance.

A strong emotional connection is important to me in any dynamic, and I value aftercare and communication. If you’re new, curious, or shy about DDLG, I’m patient and happy to go at a pace that feels safe and comfortable. I’m also open to having a light dynamic outside of the bedroom. Nothing overly intense, just enough structure to feel meaningful and the dynamic to always feel present.

Kinks I enjoy:

• Praise
• Affectionate Humiliation/Degradation
• Spanking/Light slapping
• Roleplaying
• Dollification
• Breeding
• Sleep play
• Coercion/Fear play
• Oral fixation
• Deepthroating
• Light bondage
• Size kink/over powering
• Orgasm control/denial/ruin
• Some taboo kinks that I am happy to discuss privately.

Boundaries & preferences:

I’m open-minded and willing to explore, but I have clear limits around anything involving injury, lasting marks, or anything that’s unsafe.

My only physical preference is that you’re on the slimmer/average side, but personality, emotional compatibility, and enthusiasm for the dynamic matter far more.

If this resonates with you, or if you’re someone who feels that clingy, affectionate side waiting for the right person, reach out! If not, good luck on your search.

Hi, I’m a 29M based in Boston. I’m 5'10", around 150lb. I have light brown skin, brown eyes, and short black hair with short mustache and beard. I have an average/lightly muscular body. I like a mix of active hobbies and nerdier indoor ones.

A bit about what I’m into:

• Gym & fitness: Mostly weightlifting with some cardio. I’m getting into yoga and want to try more fun/intense classes like spin.
• Tennis: I play about once a week and try to keep it up all year. If you’re new to tennis, I’m more than happy to teach.
• Skiing: Usually in the Northeast, with one or two trips out West every year. Ideally, I’d love a ski partner to spend the day on the mountain with and relax together afterward. I would be happy to introduce you to it.
• Video & board games: I play a lot of multiplayer games to stay connected with friends I don’t see often. I also enjoy both simple and complex board games.
• Reading: I read a mix of fiction(literary, sci-fi, fantasy) and non fiction. I’m always down for a two-person book club.
• Movies: I generally like most non action movies, and particularly enjoy good indie movies or anything coming out of A24.
• Cooking & food: I’m an adventurous eater and love exploring new cuisines. I started cooking a lot more during COVID and want to keep improving. Cooking together sounds perfect.

I'm generally pretty open minded and would love to find new things to enjoy together, so feel free to introduce me to your hobbies too.

Career & lifestyle:

I graduated with a computer engineering/computer science degree and work as a software developer for a big tech company on a hybrid schedule. It gives me room to travel, so long-distance within the US/Canada is possible if the intention is to eventually relocate. Ideally, you have your own career path or are working toward one.

Relationship & dynamic:

I’m a very affectionate partner and love showing it when it’s wanted and reciprocated. I want a relationship where we’re genuinely excited about each other, thinking about one another when we wake up and before we fall asleep. If you enjoy nighttime calls or FaceTime, that’s a plus.

I’m laid back, enjoy humor in every situation, and get along best with people who have a goofy, playful side. I date with long-term intent and would love to find someone I can build a future, a home, and eventually a small family with. I was raised Catholic but don’t currently practice, though I’m open to reconnecting with it if it matters to you.

My dynamic:

I’ve been a Daddy Dom for a few years and connect best with partners who enjoy a nurturing, structured, emotionally intimate style of dynamic. I’m drawn to clingy, affectionate girls who want someone steady, attentive, and grounding in their life. I’ve been told I have a calming presence, and I really enjoy the gentle, caring aspects of DDLG, comfort, closeness, routines, and supportive guidance.

A strong emotional connection is important to me in any dynamic, and I value aftercare and communication. If you’re new, curious, or shy about DDLG, I’m patient and happy to go at a pace that feels safe and comfortable. I’m also open to having a light dynamic outside of the bedroom. Nothing overly intense, just enough structure to feel meaningful and the dynamic to always feel present.

Kinks I enjoy:

• Praise
• Affectionate Humiliation/Degradation
• Spanking/Light slapping
• Roleplaying
• Dollification
• Breeding
• Sleep play
• Coercion/Fear play
• Oral fixation
• Deepthroating
• Light bondage
• Size kink/over powering
• Orgasm control/denial/ruin
• Some taboo kinks that I am happy to discuss privately.

Boundaries & preferences:

I’m open-minded and willing to explore, but I have clear limits around anything involving injury, lasting marks, or anything that’s unsafe.

My only physical preference is that you’re on the slimmer/average side, but personality, emotional compatibility, and enthusiasm for the dynamic matter far more.

If this resonates with you, or if you’re someone who feels that clingy, affectionate side waiting for the right person, reach out! If not, good luck on your search.