u/palmsgoddess

I’m fairly new to SR. I had one that lasted 5 years that was incredible so much so that after 3 years of being single, I’m realizing that I can’t have a vanilla relationship. 2 weeks ago I decided to do some research and try Seeking, SDM, & sugar book. I found sugar book to be mostly bots so I deleted after a week. On the other 2, I’m getting weird experiences. Low balling, people wanting to go back and forth with me on saying a number they feel comfortable with for allowances, no M&Gs set up, and ghosting. Biggest annoyance is that nobody will engage with a get to you know when I try to ask questions. I too want companionship, spoiling, and hot intimacy but I can’t seem to get a conversation going. Is it me? Any advice on what I can do better? Do I just need to have patience?