What if you really liked someone, and wanted to take things ahead serious... but they aren't as kinky or sexually explorative as you are.
Although the title can be a bit confusing.... What I basically meant was how important it is to be creative in a relationship where spark needs to be maintained. Of course, it does go both ways but I just had things in my mind I wanted to share... so here goes.
The point of having a partner is to share a personal space with someone who you consider as the one who knows you the most out of all people in your life. Hiding your fantasies, kinks or fetishes out of fear of judgement isn't really going to help either of you. Now I consider myself as an explorative person to begin with. I like to look up kinks, fetishes, BDSM-eque acts see if I can try out various new things that catch my eye or have fun with some limits. Maybe there are some of you who don't really wish to find twisted ways to have sex or seek erotic thrill through kinks and fetishes. And that's completely okay. I've essentially thought of you guys while writing this.
Having spice in sex life doesn't necessarily demand you to be kinky or be knowledgeable about the various tropes that exist.
As long as you are creative with it, your partner and you can create your own definition of erotic thrill.
There's really no better way to say it!
Here are some suggestions:
- Roleplaying : Live your imagination (like I fancy a woman dressed as Cleopatra ;) )
- Make a lil game : Now this is my favorite. In a past relationship I've actually enjoyed doing this a lot. For eg. I've made Monopoly sexy by allowing short cheeky sexual favors as deals you can make during the game, along with rules like "taking off a piece of clothing gets you 5 mil". It's really fun... Oh and I also used a pen/marker to write hot acts on jenga pieces (I'll let you figure out why haha)
- Inside gags : Whether its taking your partner by surprise, or pulling a dirty prank on them. You can get absolutely creative in a lot of ways (PS: Just know their limit and when they're not in the mood)
- Freeuse : I know this is a kink itself, but but but... In my opinion is a very sweet, wholesome way to show your partner how much you desire them... even if they're just "existing". There's so many ways to be creative with this as well
- Dress to Undress : (so proud of this quote) I really love this aspect because 1 - When you dress in a way that makes you feel sexy, it makes you more confident in yourself and love yourself more... and 2 - You might see a version of your partner who absolutely moves you like crazy. Whether its going out on a date or a random outing... you both would chat, flirt and present yourself in ways where both of you can't wait to get back home. Tension is hot. (I sincerely thank the inventors of bodycon... and lace)
And Lastly,
- Have an open mind : If you haven't really explored kinks or fetishes and have a bad image of those things, then I'd suggest you give it a try... before making an assumption.
- Listen to your partner : The most important bit. Listen to them, make them feel comfortable about expressing things they've probably suppressed within out of fear of judgement. It only gets more intimate when you acknowledge and affirm their desires
I kinda liked writing this post. Reminded me of some fun times... Hope this post reaches those who could use it.
(Companionship, Open-Mind, Letting thoughts run free and sharing something natural, wholedome, even wild)
Heya!
I had nothing better to do this afternoon since it's scorchingly hot out... so I'm penning down this post for someone who will find it relatable and even find something they've been looking for.
Have you ever thought about having your own personal/private space where you could completely be yourself, not be judged, indulge in all your vices and desires freely?
Have you ever wondered that there's a lot of things that you can't really share with friends or even those who are close... but just want to let it out?
I mean... naturally, you'd say yes to these but I'm addressing those who crave for a bond of anonymous companionship, having a space for open-minded chats and opening their pandora's box of hidden desires/lust...
Those who wish to spend their daily life as they were... but in the end return to their private space to address their needs, speak their heart out and comfortably indulge in thoughts they never really spoke out loud.
I'm looking for like-minded people who wish to find such a space... a space where they can be themselves, form a real wholesome bond. Something effortless and equally pleasurable
This is obviously not just restricted to all things sexual, but also conversations where we can have a heart-to-heart, some light banter, random discussions... Anything that will feel natural and authentic in the moment.
Hit me up if you're interested... and don't forget to check out my pinned post if you're really into this...
So yeah, hit me up with some fun chat, banter, random fixation of yours, any lust filled unhinged thought, urge to get wild or quite simply...talking
Pointers:
- Kinks/fetishes are subjective and don't really have to be judged
- If you're ONLY looking for a short term sexual connection, sorry but this isn't for you
- If you're someone who goes with the flow, speaks their mind and can be open-minded... then this post is ABSOLUTELY for you
Heya!
I had nothing better to do this afternoon since it's scorchingly hot out... so I'm penning down this post for someone who will find it relatable and even find something they've been looking for.
Have you ever thought about having your own personal/private space where you could completely be yourself, not be judged, indulge in all your vices and desires freely?
Have you ever wondered that there's a lot of things that you can't really share with friends or even those who are close... but just want to let it out?
I mean... naturally, you'd say yes to these but I'm addressing those who crave for a bond of anonymous companionship, having a space for open-minded chats and opening their pandora's box of hidden desires/lust...
Those who wish to spend their daily life as they were... but in the end return to their private space to address their needs, speak their heart out and comfortably indulge in thoughts they never really spoke out loud.
I'm looking for like-minded people who wish to find such a space... a space where they can be themselves, form a real wholesome bond. Something effortless and equally pleasurable
This is obviously not just restricted to all things sexual, but also conversations where we can have a heart-to-heart, some light banter, random discussions... Anything that will feel natural and authentic in the moment.
Hit me up if you're interested... and don't forget to check out my pinned post if you're really into this...
So yeah, hit me up with some fun chat, banter, random fixation of yours, any lust filled unhinged thought, urge to get wild or quite simply...talking
Pointers:
- Kinks/fetishes are subjective and don't really have to be judged
- If you're ONLY looking for a short term sexual connection, sorry but this isn't for you
- If you're someone who goes with the flow, speaks their mind and can be open-minded... then this post is ABSOLUTELY for you