We did 2 firsts... we fucked in the pool with 2 couples right across from us. Hehehe then we went upstairs and fucked again a little later on the outside deck that they have. Soooo fun. And we did some karaoke just to be different. Lol neither of us had ever done karaoke. Ohhh and we are going black tomorrow night to hang out with some new friends. We are having so much fun at Paradise. 😄🥰
So excited we are going back this week. The people there rock!
Hello, my brothers and sisters, who are of the faith, and also happened to be swingers/ENM. My wife and I are very new to the lifestyle, but we have been married for over twenty seven years and deeply entrenched in our faith for most of our lives. So, take this with a grain of salt.
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When we decided to open up our relationship, we had lots of long discussions, as i'm sure all of you did as well (or if you're just curious, and you happen to be on this subreddit, perhaps you will be having those conversations). We listened to podcasts, and that was very helpful for getting the discussion rolling.
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We decided early on that we were not going to leave God out of our lifestyle, and that it could be edifying to our faith as well as to our relationship with each other. On our way to each event/lifestyle location that we've been to, we have prayed beforehand that God would bring us the people that He wanted us to talk/interact with. We were intentional about inviting God to come along with us in this journey.
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Here's the fun fact about prayer. It works! Every single time He answered our prayers. We learned that we do not need to do this journey alone. We also learned that we do not need to leave our faith behind. Each time we have met amazing people that have similar backgrounds or similar enough history that we have been able to converse, and our faith is absolutely a part of that conversation. It is amazing and God is glorified. We have also started becoming very good friends with people in the lifestyle because of this.
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My wife and I tend to be very shy, but this is one area where we are not shy in. It is difficult for us to approach anybody because we are still very new. We are still learning. After we start being able to talk to somebody, the conversation becomes natural for us. We are able to be ourselves and we encourage you to do the same.
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We pray blessings over those that we are going to be speaking with before we ever meet them. You don't have to know who you're gonna be speaking with to ask God to bless them.
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We are curious to know how many other couples have this ritual before going to an event or a lifestyle resort. Do you all pray for guidance beforehand and ask God to bless the couples that you will be speaking with?
This will be our first time going. We're going in the evening after 7 just to check it out and maybe meet some new people. Very new to the lifestyle, and not looking to do anything more than make friends right now.
Pansexual husband and gender fluid wife. Brand new to the lifestyle, as in still figuring things out and taking things extremely slow. Looking for friends first and seeing where we feel comfortable. Been to secrets, fun but loud and highly pressurized. We would love to find a couple with a bi-friendly husband and/or a couple who are Christian. If anyone knows of local meet and greets where we can meet people and make friends without our ears being blasted with loud music, that would be amazing.
Are there any places where lgbtq+ friendly Christian lifestyle couples do meet and greets in central Florida?