u/patheticgirlwhoree

apply via modmail, tell me your age, what u like abt the sub, what u use it for, and what you think its problems are. enable public viewing of your profile

also pls lmk if you have experience with setting up automod. not required but we do need someone who can do that 😭😭😭☠️☠️☠️ its hard

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guys i cba to write rules for everything stop asking me . if it sounds like it shouldnt be on an open public reddit group for anyone to take part in then just dont post it its so simple. like every drug sub on this platform has like no moderation bc they just mod themselves. they go hmm mabye i shouldnt post this. or if this guy should not post that lets warn him so he takes it down so its all fun. if it sounds like too extreme of a confession to post to the clearnet then it probably is. i know rules make it easier but we know what the rules of the planet are stop breaking the laws and the content guidelines it is social media. we could be a fun shitpit like the drug subreddits we got this. less seeing how far u can push things before i have to spend loads of time LEARNING WHAT IS TECHNICALLY TOO FAR EXCUSE ME and more fun and shame. bc at the end of the day ur email address is on it so. shame would be good for us guys like just a bit to keep us goofy. we couldd be silly in the fun way

IT I SSS PUTTING ME off reddit if anyone acts in a ridiculous manner we will just ban. there is too much crazy per mod and i think we would fix it with a mindset change the crackheads of reddit have done it successfully

this place could be so funny you guys

we've explained what "tells" we use to make decisions, but a lot of people seem confused, so i thought id try to explain how we view sellers as an impact on the community and why we restrict them, not by a list of criteria that has to be met such as amount of text in a post, but by asking if each person has a positive or negative impact on the community via things fully in their control. and also my opinionsss which. are probably the law everywhere on reddit so dont overthink reporting just vibe it. are they advertising at you and using your interest in kink to try make money while offering nothing in return? u can tell i bet u. and if ur delusional wwe will just leave the post be its a win win. we built the rule on feedback from ppl around how they felt abt diff types of sellers so if u report based on what u think is inauthentic then ur probably doing it right dont worry abt whether they fit the checklist thats up to us

i always seem to explain things more effectively when i get informal. enjoy. i am not updating the rules to say this, they have always looked for this as a concept:
if we strip it back, without trying to make money, is the FREE content, without advertising, without clearly missing something major (such as clothes not being removed, or blurs on) worth paying attention to for what it is? can it be enjoyed as is? does it only defend its right to be here in the paid version? sellers know whether or not they are doing this, and if people in the community do not know that these people are part of it, they will NOT feel good at the end of the night when a message with genuine interest turns into an invoice per reply.

sellers who post content that ON ITS OWN is enjoyable content in itself are okay. if you arent excessively advertising, and if the free stuff is actually worth paying attention to then it is fine.
those who constantly advertise, won't actually upload anything of value without being paid, or those who have say 100 posts of the same image are not welcome.
if you dont need to pay to actually see content in the first place, you are fine. if you sell longer verisons of free vids, youre fine. iif you sell when people ask for custom content, youre fine. if your profile exists as an advertisement and is reliant on the third party platform to have any value at all to anyone including yourself, then we are not the community for you.

to figure out the right move i spoke to sellers like me, buyers of both more casual and stricter sellers, and anyone who wanted to explain to me how they felt and how it made them feel about the community they were in after finding out someone they were chatting to was a seller....:
and its simple as fuck lmfao. it was unanimous across every group . old dudes, new sellers, guys that have paid for pay for reply, women who have been interested in these groups for a while but are not sellers or did not enjoy it and quit, guys that have never paid for anything in their lives and dont care to, all people in general who think they found a friend only to discover the person behind the account has no interest in any of it and lied to them too. everyone suggested i do what felt like it made sense to me as a seller- if people want to post but still do not do anything or show anything or interact with anything or anyone unless theyre being paid per pic and per text this is not the group for it. everyone was only interested in content that stood on its own legs however it was posted. if it has no legs, theres no fun. if your contribution full stop has to be bought then we arent interested.

even if we allow stricter sellers no one wins, no one enjoys the content, and the sellers feel like shit because they get hated on while more chill sellers with more of an active interest are well recieved. final note: be nice even to them sellers doing the pay to see a naked arm type shit. they are successful for a reason they have an audience it just isnt us. they show full face they obviously enjoy what they do. dont send abuse to anyone its so weird and isnt that deep many of them have reported this.

i am done x

BIT MORE YAP BECAUSE SOME HAVE ARGUED THAT GETTING PAID = NOT HARDCORE ENOUGH = POSER HERE ARE MY OPINIONS NOT SUPER IMPORTANT FOR MOST VIEWERS LMAO JUST OFC WE HAVE THOSE PEOPLE ILY !!
so i asked a lot of successful sellers what they think about this all. i thought id ask them too because i wanted to see if i was too biased to make a decision, but its not just me. i think this is an issue with turning the community to shit or not, and it should never be about who is more extreme i actually c ould not care less about that everyones limits are in different places. the limit shouldnt be being conned emotionally or financially. other sellers can tell if there is any actual interest behind it, no matter what their prices were or whatever, that was seen as personal decision while faking a kink to try make money and ultimately fail because ppl can see thru the bullshit or dont and have their night ruined was looked down on heavy. on the lower end, people who didnt mind coexisting just say that it make things more unpleasant because they start to get compared to non existent standards of whats gross or not because their peers are clearly pretending, and it means no real friendships with other girls in your circles, however the viewers who know what they are looking at do not need to be explained to so they say they didnt mind. it appears to me this just sucks ass for everyone. its abt whether anyone is having fun or not its not about how extreme u paint urself as. i dont give a shit about debating whether or not sellers are doing it hardcore enough if they make money at all and if they need to have the top 0.0001% most depraved thoughts going on to be allowed to post. has nothing to do with anything . shoutout to my TOE DIPPERS of extreme kink yall r so funny u are welcome here too we dont kink powerscale here we fw speaking with ur fellow man. as long as it came from the heart it is welcome

YOU LOT BETTTER NEVER ASK FOR CLARIFICATION AGAIN !!!!!!!!!! if anything is still ambiguous idk deez nuts.