u/patient--butterfly

33 [F4A] #Online. Alt BBW submissive looking for a soft D/s love

I've had oAP's that have lasted years. I am looking for a lasting connection that is mental, emotional, and sexual. I'm very observant, communicative, and upfront with my feelings.

I do have some non-negotiables

- 28-40

- US or Canada only

- Be a democrat, liberal, or leftist

- Queer friendly

- Love BBW bodies, fat, curves, lumps, rolls, stretch marks

I want to find someone who puts in effort and doesn't let things fizzle out. I want someone who *wants* to be here, y'know? It's really hard to continue putting yourself out there for breadcrumbs and shallow conversation.

I bring it all - texting, selfies/pictures, voice notes, phone sex. I want to feel special and to make you feel needed and desired.

I am artistic and crafty. I have colored hair, tattoos and piercings. I love dogs. Be silly and weird with me. Let's lift each other up, or hold each other when everything feels too hard.

I flourish under guidance, structure, and dominance. If you're looking for a sweet girl who will support you endlessly and obey to you in bed - reach out.

Even though I'm fat, I have a cute face and hella curves. Attraction is important. I'm willing to exchange pictures quickly to assess attraction and not waste our time.

Some icebreakers:

- What's your favourite poem?

- What song or podcast are you listening to?

- What's the last thing you laughed uncontrollably at?

xoxo, butterfly 🦋

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