u/pdg4lyfe

My longtime partner / sub and I just had a baby. I’ve found that I naturally have multiple terms of endearment for the newborn which I have previously and regularly called my sub - honey, baby, baby girl, sweetie, love, good girl, darling, etc.

My sub hasn’t said anything but it feels a bit odd to use similar terms between the two of them, and potentially makes these terms feel less special for my sub. They all are terms of great love and affection, so come naturally out of my mouth for both.

Has anyone navigated this issue before? Any idea on sub-specific terms of endearment that clearly would not cross over to a baby? We have cum slut, which is huge for us.