u/perhensam

Hi- I haven’t yet found a partner, so I’m spanking myself. I find it difficult to really smack my left cheek (I’m right handed) with the right velocity and firmness to really bruise it (see photo), and part of the turn-on for me is admiring the damage I’ve done afterwards, and feeling the burning when I sit. I have used a hairbrush, crop, wooden spoon and rubber spatula but I really don’t have a way to smack the left cheek hard enough and at the right angle. Any suggestions as to what implement I should try, or will it get better with practice? Also, I would love to have actual welts, such as those produced by a birch or cane, but I probably will have the same problem. Any suggestions? And thanks!