Ok I know I'm stupid, please don't judge me. I used to see escorts here and there when I was in my 20s but haven't really done it in years and I decided to finally splurge on a higher end escort whose ad I saw coming to my city. I decided to do the 4 hour dinner date so we could get to know each other and take things slow and her rate was 2500. I paid the deposit and then brought the remaining amount to dinner. Everything went well at dinner conversation flowed naturally, we held hands walking back to the car and everything. Then when we got to my place she got into her sexy outfit and sat next to me and told me that the way her rates work is that full service would be another 3000. I had 3000 in cash and my plan was to see how things go and if we vibed and everything I'd pay for extra time. But I was in the moment and wasn't thinking straight so I just agreed to the 3000 and gave her the cash. Then she said by full service she means massage and happy ending(or bj forget which one) and for sex it would be another 2000 which I could send in Cash App. Again I'm stupid so I agreed to it, and she said that because her birthday is coming up I should send 3000 instead. I kind of objected and she settled on 2500. So I sent her 2500, making it a total of 8000. I was kind of hoping to take things slow, maybe watch Netflix, cuddle, make out, etc. then progress to sex. But she tells me to undress and I go ahead and get naked but ask her if we can cuddle first. She tells me she doesn't cuddle. I was a bit stunned and didn't know what to say or do. She put a condom on me before I even realized she was doing it and told me to fuck her. I hesitated and said I wanted to take things slow because I knew that I was too worked up because of the nervousness and I would finish instantly. And the rest is kind of a haze, almost like tunnel vision. She kept positioning herself and telling me to fuck her and eventually I got overstimulated and felt myself finishing without even touching her so I just grinded against her as I finished. She got dressed and I was just speechless and didn't know what to say. It was only like 2 hours into our date. But I felt so put off by the whole thing I didn't even ask if she can stay or anything.
I'm just wondering, is this a normal thing where it's yes to sex but no to cuddling? If not, any idea what was going on here? I am pretty sure I'm not gross or anything like that. And I made sure to clean my apartment beforehand, didn't do anything creepy, we seemed like we were vibing until she changed into her outfit. This experience was so horrible I don't think I'm ever going to see an escort again. I am just hoping to get some insight about this.