Do any Chinese / Southeast Asian women in Singapore feel sexually attracted to South Asian men?
Genuine question, and I’m asking specifically about adult women in Singapore.
I’m a South Asian guy and I’m curious whether Chinese or other Southeast Asian women here ever feel a strong physical/sexual attraction toward South Asian men before getting to know them personally.
I know attraction is individual, and I’m not trying to generalise entire races or bring stereotypes about nationality, occupation, hygiene, etc. into it. I’m more interested in that immediate attraction you can have toward someone’s appearance, skin tone, facial features, body type, accent, or overall vibe.
For example, is it reasonably common for someone to have a specific preference, kink, or even fetish involving South Asian men without having dated one before? Or is that kind of attraction pretty uncommon in Singapore?
Also curious where people draw the line between a harmless racial/physical preference and fetishising someone in an uncomfortable way.
Would especially appreciate honest answers from Chinese/SEA women, including whether you’ve actually experienced this kind of attraction yourself.