r/asksingaporensfw

Looking for someone to keep me company on chat.

Not meeting yet, just online. Age, experience level, and your first command in message.

Hi, I'm 18, still living with parents in HDB, and I'm genuinely struggling with this. My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months and we've only had sex in cars and once in a hotel (expensive). I know most Singaporeans live with family until marriage, so I'm wondering where is everyone actually having sex?
Is there some secret option I'm missing? Do people just wait until they can afford to move out? Or is there affordable short-stay options I'm not aware of?

Genuine question, not looking for meetups or DMs, just advice from people who've navigated this.

Thanks

Anyone wanna discuss about girls you have scored and the craziest stories you have.

M22 Singaporean brown guy here. Let's improve ourselves.

Into anime, sketching, finding new bubble tea spots, and voice calls that last until 3am.

Looking for chill 18+ friends who text back, love deep talks about nothing, and don't ghost. Flirty banter welcome if we vibe.

Online chat first. Send your age, current obsession, and favorite midnight snack when you DM!

Into 80s sci-fi, completed sitcoms, foreign films, and making lists of movies I swear I'll watch someday.

Looking for easygoing 18+ friends who judge my taste gently, recommend obscure stuff, and don't mind flirty chats during the boring parts.

DM with age, your comfort rewatch, and an old movie you think everyone should see.

anybody down for something todayyyy, I'm really horny lol. ask for my pic in my dms lol

Let’s play a little game, if you please,
Send me a truth, a dare, or tease.
You pick the truth, or take the dare,
We’ll flirt by text with sparks to spare.

Edit: Perhaps I should put a disclaimer that this is M4F

Ok. Long story short.

We only started learning/exploring recently.

Now wife's cat enjoys being eaten.

So, last night we tried something new, where I laid flat and she sat on my face.

But as she got tensed, pressed down and grinded hard on my face, her knees pressed down on my shoulders. atp I was ok. Until she clamped her thighs so hard and I couldn't breathe for a while. I couldn't tell how long, maybe 30 seconds?

But I was running out of air liao.

I wriggled and tucked my chin until I had some gap to breath.

Appreciate if anyone has safety tip to spare.

Would like to stay alive for the next round.

Idk if its my bad luck or what but the past few partners i had, those that had foreskin all had dick cheese 🤮, its so gross and such a turn off omg. Am i like too ocd or is it maybe cos our weather is crazy hot or smth??

Hi, we are looking for a young Chinese female in sg to join us for our first 3p experience (ffm). We will pay you generously for your time if you qualify. Prefer Singaporean or Malaysian Chinese. Looking for someone new to this, as this is our first time too. Looking for someone clean, attractive, disease free. We can eventually be your long term income stream if we like you.

I want to know your thoughts. If the wife doesn’t give BJ is it acceptable for the husband to get it somewhere else?

But then where do we draw the line? CIM, S X, A al?

Wives what are your thoughts? If you hate satisfying your husband in some way that is generally accepted, would you prefer your husband get it from someone else or would you rather just do it even if u hate it? Or course we are talking about generally accepted sexual pleasures and not even BDSM or anything sadistic.

Does body count matters? If yes, what does the numbers tell you about the person? Can be from male or female POV.

Context: I’m a guy and got called a slut by a girl after revealing my body count.

Tiny 19yo needs someone else's hands on her tonight. Into everything getting shared, sharing back, or just getting ruined by one person who knows what they're doing. tell me exactly how you'd use me.

Stats and what you want in first message ;) i'll be waiting

I enjoy it, but not that I tried, I still much prefer the actual sex with wife?

So, for 2 nights in a row. Wife did it for me after getting the first one ever few nights back.

Though I enjoyed the feeling/intimacy. Knowing she wanted to try something out of her comfort zone already makes me feel very happy.

While she didn't say anything, I did notice her discomfort.

Not wanting to dampen the mood. Only after it, I suggested next time we can try something she enjoys instead.

Part of me knows she was more concerned about making me happy.

Then she did it for me again the second night.

Which brings me to the strange part.

I think I still prefer having sex with her than her giving me the BJ.

By quite a lot actually.

No doubt it felt good.

But still can't beat the actual one.

Maybe I felt more connection the regular way, rather than seemingly passively enjoying myself while also wondering if she was uncomfortable.

I'm 18F, Chinese Singaporean, and I've noticed a pattern. When I match with expat guys (white, usually), they always make it about my race.

"You're so exotic." "I've always wanted to try an Asian girl." "I love how submissive you are." Dude, we just met, I'm not submissive, and I'm a person not a menu item. But I also like dating expats sometimes, they're more open-minded about casual sex, less judgmental. It's just this... thing they do where they make me feel like a collectible.

Singaporean guys do the opposite, pretend they don't care about race but then make comments about "ang mohs" if I mention dating white guys. Is this just me? How do other girls navigate this? Am I being too sensitive about the fetish thing? Should I just enjoy the attention?

Genuinely confused about dating as an Asian woman in Singapore. Feels like no matter who I choose, someone's making it about race.

Genuine question, and I’m asking specifically about adult women in Singapore.

I’m a South Asian guy and I’m curious whether Chinese or other Southeast Asian women here ever feel a strong physical/sexual attraction toward South Asian men before getting to know them personally.

I know attraction is individual, and I’m not trying to generalise entire races or bring stereotypes about nationality, occupation, hygiene, etc. into it. I’m more interested in that immediate attraction you can have toward someone’s appearance, skin tone, facial features, body type, accent, or overall vibe.

For example, is it reasonably common for someone to have a specific preference, kink, or even fetish involving South Asian men without having dated one before? Or is that kind of attraction pretty uncommon in Singapore?

Also curious where people draw the line between a harmless racial/physical preference and fetishising someone in an uncomfortable way.

Would especially appreciate honest answers from Chinese/SEA women, including whether you’ve actually experienced this kind of attraction yourself.

I'm 18F, my he is 22, both of us live with parents in HDBs. No privacy, thin walls, parents home most of the time.

How do Singaporeans in their late teens/early 20s actually manage this? Is there some secret I'm missing? Are there cheap daytime hotels I don't know about? Do you just wait until parents travel?

Seriously need practical advice. My parents go to Malaysia like twice a year and I'm already counting down.

edit: so, wife read my posts. while not angry. she's asked me to delete my original profile pics even though they were masked/censored and not even nsfw 😢

long story short, not the first time intimate with my wife, but after i did something new for her last night.
now she's a bit weird, but in a good kind of way?
i don't know how to put it.
in general, she's already quite caring/soft spoken and pda (not physical) to me.

but after last night, since this morning from the time we woke up, to car park, to our destination.
she's been like very sticky to me and I mean like she literally hugging my left arm, and her talking tone went from normal soft spoken to those super teh.
and apparently, when i asked her, she says she don't know!
Is this a hormonal thing or what?

seeking online-only friends for daily chats, stupid TikTok shares, late night deep dives, and flirty moments. Not trying to meet, just want someone to look forward to texting.

19 above only. Message with age here on this app :)

19F here, bored and can't sleep. Anyone up for casual nsfw chats? Can share experiences, fantasies, whatever. No pressure, just chill convo :)