u/pinchypeachy

edit: After a few short lived convos, I have decided to be as up front as possible. I have put a lot of thought in so if you DM me please put genuine thought into your reply too.

Hello 🙃 This post is a long time coming. Long post warning. Converted throwaway, so about me:

• 22 f, NY, some NC and DC travel, recent grad starting a career
• Extroverted, a pleaser, mature
• I enjoy nights spent out or in, travel, pretending to play tennis (let's be honest, it's mostly neighborhood pickleball), swimming, and cooking
• 5'3" 115 lbs, fit, conventionally attractive

On the outside, I'm fun but professional, career ready, in a new chapter.

Underneath that, I'm very high libido, high energy, love porn, and am very attracted to older guys, something I've realized over the past year or so. I have only been with guys my age, and this is a side of me that fam and friends know nothing about.

But being in a new place and chapter away from others - seeing the older, often attached, guys in public, the occasional glances and small talk, wondering if they are thinking the same - at some point things hit me and I started thinking about the possibilities, especially if the needle in a haystack, right, careful situation were there. And I cannot stop thinking about it.

So after a lot of thought and curiosity, I am ready to say the quiet part out loud. Here goes. I am looking for a discreet, ongoing, nasty connection with an older attached man looking for a very horny younger playmate, mutual fun, but tilted toward the context of his needs. Please be:

• 30-65ish
• Attached but secure, fulfilled, and otherwise happy, interested in this as a positive addition without affecting situations negatively, focused on overlapping needs
• Not hyper dom or experienced, someone on the same level
• Real, serious, willing to take time to think through this and exchange pics and verify when we are both comfortable

I am open to to fun, careful activities, connection, and time spent if it goes that way. Beyond that, I am looking for something otherwise private, ongoing, and sex intensive. Here are my kinks:

• anal, butt play
• toys and lingerie
• oral, deepthroating
• dick play and edging
• cum and swallowing

Please be into or open to these. For me, this is about the ability to pursue a discreet, sex focused connection and really taking it to the next ongoing level.

But *much* more than that it’s about seeing an older attached guy build a private space for himself focused on his seriously filthier needs and a positive outlet. I would LOVE to step into a situation like that with someone who has thought about this carefully and wants to create a genuinely nasty space for this stage of his life. I am understandably cautious in thinking about it. At the same time, I am curious about the next step and the right situation with someone who wants to make it real. Thanks for reading.

edit: After a few short lived convos, I have decided to be as up front as possible. I have put a lot of thought in so if you DM me please put genuine thought into your reply too.

Hello 🙃 This post is a long time coming. Long post warning. Converted throwaway, so about me:

• 22 f, NY, some Philly and DC travel, recent grad starting a career
• Extroverted, a pleaser, mature
• I enjoy nights spent out or in, travel, pretending to play tennis (let's be honest, it's mostly neighborhood pickleball), swimming, and cooking
• 5'3" 115 lbs, fit, conventionally attractive

On the outside, I'm fun but professional, career ready, in a new chapter.

Underneath that, I'm very high libido, high energy, love porn, and am very attracted to older guys, something I've realized over the past year or so. I have only been with guys my age, and this is a side of me that fam and friends know nothing about.

But being in a new place and chapter away from others - seeing the older, often attached, guys in public, the occasional glances and small talk, wondering if they are thinking the same - at some point things hit me and I started thinking about the possibilities, especially if the needle in a haystack, right, careful situation were there. And I cannot stop thinking about it.

So after a lot of thought and curiosity, I am ready to say the quiet part out loud. Here goes. I am looking for a discreet, ongoing, nasty connection with an older attached man looking for a very horny younger playmate, mutual fun, but tilted toward the context of his needs. Please be:

• 30-65ish
• Attached but secure, fulfilled, and otherwise happy, interested in this as a positive addition without affecting situations negatively, focused on overlapping needs
• Not hyper dom or experienced, someone on the same level
• Real, serious, willing to take time to think through this and exchange pics and verify when we are both comfortable

I am open to to fun, careful activities, connection, and time spent if it goes that way. Beyond that, I am looking for something otherwise private, ongoing, and sex intensive. Here are my kinks:

• anal, butt play
• toys and lingerie
• oral, deepthroating
• dick play and edging
• cum and swallowing

Please be into or open to these. For me, this is about the ability to pursue a discreet, sex focused connection and really taking it to the next ongoing level.

But *much* more than that it’s about seeing an older attached guy build a private space for himself focused on his seriously filthier needs and a positive outlet. I would LOVE to step into a situation like that with someone who has thought about this carefully and wants to create a genuinely nasty space for this stage of his life. I am understandably cautious in thinking about it. At the same time, I am curious about the next step and the right situation with someone who wants to make it real. Thanks for reading.

edit: After a few short lived convos, I have decided to be as up front as possible. If it isn't obvious, I have put a lot of thought in so if you DM me please put genuine thought into your reply too.

Hello 🙃 This post is a long time coming. Long post warning. Converted throwaway, so about me:

• 22 f, recent grad starting a career
• Extroverted, a pleaser, mature, descriptive
• I enjoy nights spent out or in, travel, pretending to play tennis (let's be honest, it's mostly neighborhood pickleball), swimming, and cooking
• 5'3" 115 lbs, fit, conventionally attractive

On the outside, I'm fun but professional, career ready, in new chapter.

Underneath that, I'm very high libido, high energy, love porn, and am very attracted to older guys, something I've realized over the past year or so. I have only been with guys my age, and this is a side of me that fam and friends know nothing about.

But being in a new place and chapter away from others - seeing the older, often attached, guys in public, at the grocery store, airport, gym ... the occasional glances and small talk, wondering if they are noticing and thinking the same - at some point things hit me and I started thinking about the real life possibilities, especially in the right careful situation. And I cannot stop thinking about it.

So after a lot of thought and curiosity about the calculated risk, I am ready to say the quiet part out loud. Here goes. I am looking for a discreet, ongoing, nasty connection with an older attached man looking for a very horny younger playmate, mutual fun, but honestly focused on his needs. Please be:

• 30-65ish
• Attached but secure, fulfilled, and otherwise happy, interested in this as a positive addition without affecting situations negatively, focused on overlapping needs
• Not hyper dom or experienced. I prefer someone on the same level
• Real, serious, willing to take time to think through this and exchange pics and verify when we are both comfortable

I am open to to fun, careful activities, and time spent if it goes that way. Beyond that, I am looking for something otherwise private, ongoing, and sex intensive. Here are my kinks:

• anal, butt play
• toys and lingerie
• oral, deepthroating
• dick play and edging
• cum and swallowing

Please be into or open to these. For me, this is about the ability to pursue a discreet, sex focused connection and really taking it to the next ongoing level.

*But more than that* it’s about seeing an older attached guy build a private space for himself focused on his seriously filthier needs and a positive outlet. I would LOVE to step into a situation like that with someone who has thought about this carefully and wants to create a side life focused on his cock. I am understandably cautious in thinking about it. At the same time, I am curious about the next step and the right situation with someone who wants to make it real. Thanks for reading.