I am a 27 y/o switch, very heavily leaning toward submissiveness depending on the dynamic. I live in Germany, and have a decade of experience in BDSM dynamics. I am looking for a confident, sadistic, and controlling person who will use me for her own pleasure and satisfaction (sexual and/or non-sexual).
I love to give up control and be used in any way, and as my name suggests, I am a pleaser. Throughout my life, I have had relationships and served mean and controlling women in one way or another. When given a chance, I commit to service and my owner. In an ideal dynamic, I would lose the ability to make decisions in time and fully give up my control over everything. Experiencewise, I think I can say I had the most fun when I was seen and treated as a slave, cuck, object, pet, and not as an equal in a relationship.
To tell more about myself, I am interested in being controlled and restricted overall (as you might already tell). My kinks include TPE, feet/socks/shoes, objectification, cuckold, cbt, light pain, joi, impact play, CNC, pegging, pet play, humiliation, degradation, chastity, spit play, water sports, blackmail, and manipulation. I love BDSM mostly because of its psychological aspect. That doesn't mean that I don't like to be slapped, but I love the enjoyment that my owner gets from slapping me more than I love the pain I get from getting slapped. My limits are blood, permanent marks, and overtly public. Oh I also have 2 toys.
Personalitywise, I enjoy travelling, watching movies and TV series, and reading. I am in the middle of the introvert-extravert scale, with an MBTI of ENTJ. I had enough experience in both vanilla and kinky relationships, including as a dom, but I always felt happier and more satisfied as a sub.
Please feel free to send me a message if you are interested, and please tell me what caught your interest. I can tell you more about myself and send a few pictures too if you want.