u/plkadot777

i’ve always been very very drawn to bdsm and specifically submission for awhile, for non-sexual and sexual reasons, and i’ve met someone online that is involved in the scene in my town but have no clue how or what to ask. they’re really open about talking and encouraged me to ask questions but im so awkward and have no clue where to even start. i asked how they got into it and now im stumped but i don’t want to come across as im ghosting them 😣 has anyone had a similar situation? or what would you recommend as good starting points?