u/pop3014

hi RAOBJ! it's summertime in Chicago and I'm looking for someone to enjoy the good weather with.

to start: I'm 32 years old, Asian American, single, 5'8", athletic/hwp, with short black hair and glasses. I call my body type "clearly works out but also clearly likes to eat"🥲 I work as a scientist in the area, and I consider myself sane and emotionally intelligent, with a sarcastic and dry sense of humor. some of my interests include being a big foodie, contemporary literature, trivia nights, sports, weightlifting, going to museums, and board games!

I've had some success on here before but am ideally looking for an ongoing recurring meetup. happy to keep things casual, or to become friends out of the bedroom if we click!

as for other details: I am drug and disease free and frequently tested with proof to share, COVID vaccinated every fall, and extremely sex positive - communication and compassion are priorities for me, explicitly communicated consent is super sexy, and discretion is paramount. reciprocation is never expected, but always appreciated. I live alone in a luxury apartment on the North Side accessible by public transit; I don’t mind hosting.

about you: you are between the ages of 21-40, single, and take care of your body/do some sort of athletic activity. I have a preference for East/Southeast/South Asian women, but I will not discriminate on ethnicity. you are also drug and disease free, politically liberal, and discreet.

I don’t mind sharing verification pictures/video chats once we chat a little. I also don't expect to see your face right off the bat, but any pictures you send are appreciated. happy also to meet platonically for drinks/coffee/boba to get a feel for one another.

hoping to hear from you :)

hi RAOMD! loving this warmer weather and looking for someone to explore the city with, get food with, etc. before I take you to my bed to treat you like the queen you are.

about me: I am 32 (consistently told I look younger than I am), Asian American, 5'8", 170 lb, black hair/brown eyes/glasses/clean-shaven, working in STEM education, leftist, and DDF as of last testing. I live alone in a luxury apartment on the North Side accessible by public transit; I don’t mind hosting. My body type is athletic, or what I call "clearly works out but also clearly loves to eat." I love trying new restaurants, going to the gym (mostly weightlifting, some cardio lately), playing sports (mostly volleyball), taking ceramics classes, community service, and good coffee. I'd love to have someone to explore restaurants with, or a weightlifting buddy :)

I am an attentive partner who most enjoys knowing that I am giving my partner pleasure, whatever that may look like for her. I have a true oral fixation since giving pleasure is my priority. Looking for a one-time thing here but happy to engage in something regular, intimate, and casual if something clicks. After all, I think a meaningful friendship connection is important to making the benefits that much better, and I enjoy a slow burn, flirtatious innuendos only you and I understand, stolen glances across the room, and looking forward to your texts every day. I value authenticity, vulnerability, and intentionality; your safety, pleasure, and boundaries are my priorities, in addition to good communication, explicitly clear consent, and discretion.

about you: you are between the ages of 21-40, single, and take care of your body/do some sort of athletic activity (no BBWs please). I prefer shaved or nearly trimmed. I have a preference for East/Southeast/South Asian/Latina/Caucasian women, but please reach out if interested anyway. you are also drug and disease free, politically liberal, and discreet.

happy to trade pictures and verify if there is mutual interest. would prefer a first meeting in public for coffee/drinks for comfort and safety.

happy searching 🫶