u/possiblytipsy2

32F married to 32M for 10 years. My husband isnt against anything, and I think that if I brought up again wanting to use a toy he probably wouldn't care. He knows I have them right in the bedside table. But the issue is, Ive tried in the past and I felt like any toy was getting in the way, also I didnt want him to think I was focusing on myself, I wanted him to still feel like he had all of my attention on pleasing him so I stopped after just a minute or so and haven't tried since. That was like a year ago. How do you use a toy without it getting in the way or it being inconvenient for the man in the situation? A certain position or technique for like some clit action during the deed? I'd really like for this to happen because I admittedly cant orgasm from penetration alone, only when he gives me oral or if I use a toy during some solo time. I feel like it'd take the pressure off of him to perform oral if he wasn't feeling like it. Also admittedly, if I could have an orgasm during sex I dont think I would have a bit of a bummed-out feeling after since it'd be more pleasing for this side of the party.