u/poutylips_89

Hi, I’m a submissive living in Asia looking for an Asian man to date exclusively. I’m looking for a long-term relationship built on trust, mutual attraction and emotional connection. Though we may start online, I hope we can plan together how we can close the gap eventually. I am allowing myself to be hopelessly optimistic this year hence this post.

I am petite, fit, and lead an active lifestyle. I am in marketing and work as a fitness instructor on my free time. I am independent, have varied interests and likes to spend time with people special to me. I am usually reserved (infj) but open with my sexual identity and preferences in a man. My friends have long given up on setting me up and it’s ok. I’m affectionate, playful, deeply loyal, and more for the right man. I haven’t have any experience with BDSM, just some lighter kinks but I am drawn to power play, control and giving it up and TPE just to give you an idea. We can discuss the specifics once mutual attraction is established.

I’m looking for someone who’s also looking for something meaningful just with added bdsm aspect. Ideally, you’re also living in Asia (easier to visit each other that way) and is around my age or older. You have a dominant side and is capable of leading in and out of the bedroom. You try to live your life with integrity, know the meaning of boundaries, consent, effort and consistency.

If this post speaks to you, send me a short message about yourself and a recent sfw photo. I know long distance relationship is not for everybody so if you can also include why you’re open to try it w me.