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45 [F4M] #chicago - looking to have a cute date for Saturday night (and more if we get along REALLY well)

Hello! Visiting Chicago and Saturday is my last night here while my travel companions go back home to NYC. Staying in Streeterville/Magnificent Mile area.

I am 45, Chinese American, petite and chubby/curvy with kind eyes, a nice smile and an infectious laugh. Looking for someone to have a cute date with and possibly dinner if we hit it off. If we REALLY hit it off, I've got a hotel room to myself. A pillow princess so I hope eating dessert is your thing. 😉

Send me a message with a description and tell me your favorite fruit. Please be 24-50. Looking forward to hearing from you!

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u/This-throwaway9936 — 9 hours ago

31 [F4M] Online/US - White girl ovulating again 🫠

Heyaaa, I'm back to needing some help with feeling a lil feral for the week 😅 Hahaha

Maybe we can create smth long term so I don't have to post again ? 🥲🩷

Abt me: 5'2, hwp curvy (pics), tan skin + brown hair + brown eyes, hyper girlie, west coast accent, single

Abt you: 5'10 or shorter, fit/athletic, cute jock vibes or too many tattoos, some kind of American accent, also single

Looking for a soft dom "don't you wanna be a good girl for daddy? 🥺" type beat. I like being told what to do, so pls be good at taking the lead !!

Text is fine, but I prefer voice calls.

Ages 28 - 36 only + let's trade face pics too !

Only interested in progressive guys !!

Hmu with age and location pls & thnx 💌

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u/llamalobotomy — 20 hours ago

34 [M4F] - #EST/Online - Going through a tough time and looking for an online distraction

I'm currently going through a bit of a difficult time, and while I am managing okay, would love to have someone to chat with to take my mind off of things as I wind down for the night.

About myself:

- 34 year old Asian male standing at 6 feet, with a decent head on my shoulders, and have been told I'm good looking.

- Huge music - for an icebreaker, hit me up with your favorite band/artist, song, record, or song you have on repeat now!

- Chill and easy going, with a good sense of humor.

I'm open to both sfw with a little flirting/teasing and NSFW chats, but I really value witty banter, so that above all else.

Hear from you soon!

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u/FlamingHotWaffles — 1 day ago

33 [F4M] Bay Area/Online - Bored. Come entertain me please

I am currently procrastinating and looking for someone fun to talk to. I’m open to SFW, NSFW or somewhere in between. I’m not picky about the conversation as long as you’re actually capable of having one.

I’m mainly into Asian guys, 26+ (I would love to eventually find a boyfriend 👀 lol) I’m not really looking for a random hookup atm, though I’m also not opposed to a little flirting and seeing where the conversation goes. Ideally we start by making each other laugh and somehow end up realizing we’ve been talking for three hours.

I’m not going to pretend this is a completelyyyy innocent post. I have NSFW pics on my profile if you’re curious, but I’d much rather actually get to know someone than have a conversation consisting entirely of “hey” and “you’re hot.”

So come say hi. Tell me what you’re playing, watching, listening to, reading, cooking, obsessed with, or whatever weird little fact about yourself you think I should know.

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u/BACenthusiast — 2 days ago

30 [F4R] NYC/US - i just want my phone to go ding!

Hello helloooo guess who’s on a long haul flight and can’t sleep cos for some reason the airline only has access to the most rock solid piece of fabric on earth for you to use as a pillow? Meeeee.

I’ve posted a couple of times and always end up chatting with really cool respectful non-weird people from this sub so I thought I’d try my luck again.

I’m 30F, Asian immigrant, NYC-based, INFJ (if that matters), mostly screen hobbies such as tv shows, movies, mobile games etc 🫠 but I also go out and touch grass sometimes. I love collecting cute little indie coffee shops around NYC for example. I also sing, hike, and shoot arrows! I don’t drink or smoke, and while occasional use is fine I have found that I don’t really vibe with people who drink as a way to have fun or make smoking of any kind a part of their identity. No offense.

I’m also super single and getting pretty self conscious about it at the big three zero so if you are a cute kind funny East or Southeast Asian guy between 27 and 35 (negotiable) or can introduce me to one, come on down lmao 🤣 or let’s just swap war stories. Dating in NYC is a very specific type of hell is it not?

Anyway. I’m bored and open to making new friends. Say hi if you wanna. Cheers.

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u/calla-lily27 — 3 days ago

35 [F4M] #NYC Sex as a bonus, not the main event

Black American, plus sized, 5’3 looking for cute guys, fun outings and good sex if the vibe is right. Reach out and say hi!

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u/Careful_Simple_9610 — 3 days ago

22 [F4M] #Socal or Anywhere - Blonde girl just wants to let loose with masculine Asian men (read first pls)

Hii guys! 5'3 white blonde girl here. Been feeling stressed from school lately and I need a masculine man who is mature and confident! Problem is all the "men" I've met on here so far turn out to be just. I'm not interested in being your mommy, so real men only pls. Also I am only attracted to Asian men. Open to talking from guys from anywhere in the USA (and beyond) because I'm starting to plan my trips for next year soon.

Stuff I look for: Be smart, have a degree or study something hard, or have a cool job. Be well hung. Also never thought I needed to say this, but BO is a huge turnoff so please take care of your body. Older men preferable, age cap is maybe 45?

Also lmk your age, where you're from, what you do, how you look, and how big you are down there (this is not a deal-breaker btw if you hit all the other criteria).

~ Tty guys soon!°~°

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u/SignificantPlan8962 — 3 days ago

27 [F4M] Germany - Fun dates and exploring the city together

Hi! I am a chinese girl staying in Germany and looking for a person to chat and hang out in real life.

If you’re down to hang out or grab a drink, shoot me a message!

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u/Own-Fisherman4112 — 5 days ago

21 [f4m] online, I'm feeling down and want some company

We all know the phrase, misery loves company. Though i don't really want to have anyone else feel bad so to say. I hope you're doing well and happy. However, i do love me some company. I like getting to know people, it helps me learn of new things as well (and keep my mind off of what is troubling me).

To give a little briefing about myself, I've been going through depression for a while now, so i have become a sorta boring person myself. I used to paint, i liked anime and mangas, i used to be crafty and all, i rarely engage with these hobbies now. It's been a while since i even explored music, i think i have a fairly decent and diverse pallette when it comes to music genre. Finding new music through new people is always fun in my opinion, so that can be a conversation starter imo :D, or you can ask me anything you're curious about (nsfw)

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u/keenkril08 — 6 days ago

20M [R4R] Just a question, Can any race post on here?

I know this sounds really dumb to ask in the subreddit specifically for Asians, but I’ve seen people who aren’t Asian post and comment, and I’d like to know if that’s allowed before I myself post, because I don’t want to be disrespectful. Please lmk!

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u/Improperguitarist — 5 days ago

27 [F4M] Just bored and looking in the DMV area

I'm just an Asian girl living in Montgomery County, MD. I moved here like 3 months ago and just wanna meet people and hangout. I'll tell more about myself in DMs, and we can exchange pics. I only date East and Southeast Asians, if you're interested in that. If you want me to respond, tell me if you like pho or not. It's a simple request.

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u/AverageUSA-Citizen — 6 days ago

26 [F4R] #San Francisco - Visiting SF in early October and would love to meet up with people to eat/explore

I do NOT live in SF. I'm from across the country on the east coast! I'm just visiting for the first time for a couple days in early October and really love to be social and find other people to hangout with when I travel. Especially because I've heard good things about the Asian food there.

I don't care about gender although it would be preferred to have people around my age. I'm Chinese American myself and want to go to the local Chinatown (which is very close to where I'm planning on staying anyways). If you're also visiting for leisure, even better! I don't work in tech though so please don't try to network with me lol.

If you have any recommendations on things to do or eat, I'd love to hear them. I'm just gonna be mainly doing touristy things. I promise I'm easy to talk to and can walk for a very long time. Come hangout with me!

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u/hypermobileknee12 — 6 days ago

30 [F4M] NJ/NY - Sooooooo who likes Bruno Mars?

I think he has a concert today and two more dates next week. I kinda wanna go if someone else also likes him too. He’s cool 😎.

But outside of that, how’s everyone’s week going? Alesso/Gryffin is also playing.

Drop me a line if you just wanna talk as well.

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u/caneyesitonyourface — 6 days ago

30[F4M] Manila - kinda lonely and wanna friendly chat/discord call? :) books/coffee/investing

Just here for a friendly sfw chat! Age gender location? And sorry if I haven’t replied to you, hit me up again!

A little more about me:

•5’3, 115-120lb, Asian, Metro Manila, WFH full time, frequent pangs of loneliness

• I'm on a massive reading kick and have already finished 50 books this year! I lean heavily into the bleak, transgressive, and existential. Sorry, but I might yap about reading! **Do you read?!**

• I run on coffee and matcha.

• I’m also a huge investor. I love watching my money grow, but I’m strictly a low-risk player.

About you:

• Ideally, you have plenty of free time to chat throughout the day.

Recent reads: Dungeon Crawler Carl, The Lover, Three Body Problem, The Vegetarian, Wittgenstein's Nephew. I also recently read Agostino by Alberto Moravia, alongside The Days of Abandonment by Elena Ferrante and Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin. Currently reading Project Hail Mary

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u/whatsinanameidunno — 6 days ago

45 [F4M] NJ/East Coast - looking for East Asian men

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Open to short- or long-term. Let's see where the vibes and chemistry take us—whether that turns into friendship, dating, or relationship.

Open to ages 25 and older but prefer men similar to my age group

Must be drug disease free

I like movies try new foods music crafting yard sales thrift stores concerts

Never married no kids

I'm 5'8" tall thick/average build busty blond hair brown eyes

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u/Opposite-Time-321 — 8 days ago

31 [F4R] #texas/online looking for friends

Hi there! A few things about me — I’m Viet and enjoy talking about life convos and mid life crises. Not only that I love Asian food, music and other things. Just looking for company and good conversationalist. Let’s talk hypotheticals like what would you do if life wasn’t bounded by the rules we current live in? 😂🤣 what can I say, I’m a Pisces 😭😂 living in my dream world or whatever they call it.

I like watching Kdramas, bobs burger and sometimes a bit of romance movies. My type of music genre is edm, pop and amongst other artists. Share me your favorite song or something.

Thanks for reading if you’ve made it this far! 🤝

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u/wandering-galaxy — 9 days ago

23 [F4M] #Koreatown,CA - Someone with good tongue games and fun to spend time with me!

Seeking FWB+ for soft moments and rough play (oral, breast). Need cuddles, validation, and a partner who loves my cute body and eating me out. Discreet only.

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u/MangosteenRani — 8 days ago

33 - [F4M] Seattle - Looking for a fwb 😊

Looking for a consistent fwb. Must live within Seattle and can host. Preference for Asian men, must be fit, attractive/cute, non-smoker, recently tested, single, 6”+ 🍆, honest, good communicator, straight and clean/hygienic

🚫 Not interested in virgins, subs, bi men, married men, non Asian men, girls, cheaters, couples and online only 🚫

Attraction matters! If you are interested send me a pic of you and tell me about yourself. No effort single sentence messages will be ignored

About me - 33, Asian, 5’2”, 145 lbs, Lives in Seattle, Can drive, Cute and submissive.

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u/ZoeyPan — 9 days ago

27 [F4R] #Online - Sleepless in Seoul

Dear reader,

It's well after midnight here in Seoul, South Korea and I can't seem to persuade myself to go to sleep, even though I have a work function to attend tomorrow morning. I have a bad habit of staying up way too late. My sleep schedule is absolutely screwed, but I like it that way. There's something kind of special about the peace and tranquility of a quiet night - the fact that there are no expectations of you, and no pressure to be anywhere or do anything.

A friend of mine has been staying with me for the past three weeks, and she just left yesterday. While I'm ecstatic to have my space back to myself, I guess it feels a little odd not to have someone permanently around. The happy medium, I suppose, is this - virtual company while I enjoy my space exactly how I like it (dimly candlelit, the perfect temperature, with a very soft fragrance to cultivate a relaxing environment).

I don't want an ordinary conversation. I want something you'd only get at midnight (and please don't misunderstand - I am NOT looking for anything NSFW): a meeting of minds, an exchange of ideas, a thought-provoking debate... Something that pushes the boundary of the intellect and makes me feel suspended in the liminality of the night for just a little bit longer. If tomorrow comes and our brief interaction comes to a close, I won't be discouraged or upset. I leave the creative direction of our conversation entirely in your hands.

About me: I am 27, originally from Montréal but doing AI research here in South Korea. My best quality is my worldliness. I have a curiosity for the world and all it has to offer; a voracious appetite for knowledge and a relentless attraction to experience, novelty, understanding, beauty, and contradiction. There is more on my profile - feel free to take a look or leave our dynamic up to chance.

Chat soon,

R

u/awhisperinthevoid — 9 days ago

28 [F4M] ATL - Looking for a good time not a long one

Hi all,

28, F, Latina here looking for a ONS. Preferably Korean or Chinese. Don’t want to make things too complicated. I’m looking for local only, 21-32 age range. Must be clean/std free.

Please only send a DM if you’re local and able to trade/exchange photos of what you actually look like (Not just a body pic). I never meet up with anyone online without knowing what they look like first. If that’s something you cannot do then please don’t waste your time sending me a DM. If you do, you will get blocked.

Thanks!

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u/lunaxdiaz — 8 days ago