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34 [F4M] Western Canada - Looking for a friend!

Helllooo,

Firstly I am married & Caucasian, buuut I am looking for a longer term on going thing with one person. I am looking for someone who is educated, capable of conversation and who is willing to put in time and effort.

I also work a high stress job, so someone who understands that would be nice as well.

Looking to ideally start online and if things work out, eventually figure out meeting. Please be in Canada or able to travel!

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u/Then_Hold_2913 — 1 day ago

30 [F4M] NYC - AMBW looking for a gentleman

I’ve always had a soft spot for older East Asian men, the confidence, maturity, and quiet charm never fail to catch my attention. I’m a thick Carribean woman looking for someone who enjoys slow burn chemistry, playful flirting, and roleplay. I’m looking for someone who enjoys building tension and getting lost in a great time.

I’m specifically seeking an older East Asian man (40+). This is a personal preference, so I’ll only be responding to East Asian men. If you’re kind, communicative and enjoy roleplay, send me your age, where you’re from, and your favorite scenario. Bonus points if you can make me smile before we even start writing 🤭✨

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u/UrBrattyPrncess — 1 day ago

22 [F4R] California /Online/ Anywhere - Entertain me

It’s my first week of summer school… and I kid you not, no one talks. So I’m just sitting here alone at lunch bored out of my mind. If anyone is free I’m down to talk, chat or call just please don’t make me sit here scrolling between the weather app and pretending to texts 💀

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u/Upstairs-Bridge5225 — 1 day ago

22 [F4M] #Houston - in town for now, open to meet someone genuine

Currently spending some time in Houston and thought I'd see if there's anyone interesting to get to know while I'm here. I'm looking for someone discreet, mature, respectful and easy to talk to. I enjoy genuone conversation, good energy and connection that develop naturally. Discretion and mutual respect are important to me and i appreciate people who communicate honestly.

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28 [F4M] Atlanta - Latina looking for Korean fwb

hi,

latina here new to atl and looking for a korean fwb. single, no kids, and would prefer if you can host. i’m not looking for anything serious so please don’t message me if you’re looking for that or if you’re not local because i don’t do long distance.

if you want to know a little about me:

•salvadoran

•5’2

•in uni for comp sci

•masochist

loves:

hiking
gaming
traveling
matcha
coding
shopping
car shows
dumplings
concerts
trading/investing

anyways! if you feel like we have some things in common then send a dm :)

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u/heatherrenneeswt — 2 days ago

19[F4M] #Ph #Online — wanna test how low i can go? ;)

I'm looking for some company rn. Preferably someone who can yap with substance and can satisfy my hunger. Pure audio call.

About me:

- 5'3

- green school

- mommy voice

- gamer (literally any)

- nocturnal

- great conversationalist

- lotsa hobbies (can talk allat)

About you:

- appearance & background doesn't matter

- preferably older

- deep voice

- gamer

- yapper

- loud

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u/Ancient-Interest8520 — 3 days ago

[F4M] 25 UK/Online - looking for a long term connection that might lead to something more

Me: Chinese, 5’4, 65kg, curvy but fit, people tend to say I have a cute face. A little innocent and a bit of a nerd 🤓

You: East Asian/ SE Asian for similar backgrounds, at least 5’8, fit and attractive to me (subjective) 👀 open to 22-32 ish

Looking for someone to chat to daily and casually share updates on our lives with, I know the nature of Reddit and I’m not opposed 👀 but I’m looking for more SFW chat than NSFW. I have a bit of a monotonous life and miss talking to new people especially in a romantic/flirty way. Big emphasis on the ‘long term’ I crave a lot of attention 😔 More about me, I exercise every so often and spend a lot of time with my family, trying to job hunt after uni (which is beating me down 😵‍💫) I enjoy NYT Games and recently been watching HOTD (was a huge GOT fan) and Love Island UK as well as the World Cup 🙂‍↕️ I also love music and play a lot of instruments! dm me with your ASL and something that might pique my interest!

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u/cherrycherrychn — 3 days ago

21 [F4R] #online / #california last few days on vacation before real life starts again, looking for someone to come home to

just turned 21 a week ago. spent my birthday at a formula 1 grand prix and a bts concert in europe, which is exactly as cool and as quietly lonely as it sounds. i came here to exist without context for a little while, no history, no expectations, just me and the noise of engines and old cities. it's been good. but i'm in my last days of it now, heading back soon to start an internship, and something about that transition makes you start thinking about what you're actually building toward.

i'm a triple major at a UC (cs/ce/journalism), i write and i build things. i've lived a pretty wild and full life, more than most people my age, and i don't regret any of it. but there's a particular kind of sting that comes with doing all of it alone. i know my standards are high. i know my ambition takes up a lot of space. i've made peace with that. i just haven't found someone who fits alongside it rather than getting lost in it.

demisexual, both anxious and avoidant. i say that upfront because i'd rather you know than find out later.

graduating in a year and moving back to the bay area. that part matters. i'm looking for something real, something that gives me a reason to come home and feel like i actually belong somewhere. not performative, not rushed. just the kind of person you can build a quiet life with, who gets what it means to care deeply about the work you do.

if you're in tech (cs, ce, that world), based in or around the bay, and you understand what it's like to be asian and carrying a lot, i think we'd have a lot to talk about. not a requirement written in stone, just where i tend to feel most understood.

more about me, my interests, and everything else on my profile.

i love long intro messages. if you took the time to write one, i'll take the time to actually read it.

and to close, tell me something worth knowing about yourself. that's all i'm asking.

[note: my dms are really broken hence my requests tab is empty. i don't ghost]

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u/khotchilivibe — 4 days ago

45 [F4R] #usa - Looking for genuine connections, unforgettable memories, and and more. 💜

Life has taken me on a difficult journey. I'm living with a serious disability and terminal illness, so I'm focused on making the most of the time and energy I have. I'm building my bucket list, creating amazing memories, and surrounding myself with kind, genuine people.

I'm open to: ✨ New friends 💜 Friends with benefits (FWB) 💕 A romantic partner 🌈 Polyamorous connections

I'm demisexual, which means emotional connection comes first for me. Trust, comfort, laughter, and genuine chemistry matter far more than appearances.

A little about me: 🎮 Gaming 🌸 Anime 🎵 EDM festivals & concerts 🎤 K-pop 🎬 Movies 🍜 Good food 🏖️ Beaches & pools 🎡 Amusement parks 🎆 Festivals ✈️ Traveling whenever possible

One of my biggest dreams is to travel and meet amazing people around the world. I'd especially love to make friends—or find meaningful connections—in the USA, Canada, South Korea, and Japan.

I'm not looking for pity. I'm looking for people who want to laugh, explore, share experiences, and make incredible memories together.

If you're kind, open-minded, emotionally mature, and believe that meaningful connections can happen in unexpected ways, I'd love to hear from you.

Life is short. Let's make it beautiful.

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u/Ok_Development8785 — 4 days ago

24 [F4M] Los Angeles - Coming back! Happy 4th :)

Hey everyone~ I’m coming back to LA this weekend for the 4th of July, and I thought it’d be nice to go to a viewpoint, watch some fireworks, make out a little.. and maybe have some backseat fun? 😗

My last trip to LA was so fun, and hot! Thank you to those whom were so hospitable, and I’m hoping to make more memories with new friends :)

A little about me:
Japanese, 5’3” (5’7” with heels 😤), shoulder length hair (blonde now!), runner’s build (but not a stick, squat pr is 235 now 🍑). I love to try new bars and restaurants, attend game nights, sing karaoke.. I like to keep my mouth busy 👀

A little about you:
East Asian (but not a deal breaker!), taller than me, big arms to choke me with, has similar interests, can drive, and can handle drinks 🥃.

I had the pleasure of meeting a few really nice gentlemen 🫶🏻 I hope that you can help me have an exciting weekend.. and give me a good workout 😮‍💨

Edit: To prove you read this, tell me a viewpoint you’d take me to ☺️

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u/Sure-Hyena-7895 — 6 days ago

34 [F4M] Asia - sub looking for LTR

Hi, I’m a submissive living in Asia looking for an Asian man to date exclusively. I’m looking for a long-term relationship built on trust, mutual attraction and emotional connection. Though we may start online, I hope we can plan together how we can close the gap eventually. I am allowing myself to be hopelessly optimistic this year hence this post.

I am petite, fit, and lead an active lifestyle. I am in marketing and work as a fitness instructor on my free time. I am independent, have varied interests and likes to spend time with people special to me. I am usually reserved (infj) but open with my sexual identity and preferences in a man. My friends have long given up on setting me up and it’s ok. I’m affectionate, playful, deeply loyal, and more for the right man. I haven’t have any experience with BDSM, just some lighter kinks but I am drawn to power play, control and giving it up and TPE just to give you an idea. We can discuss the specifics once mutual attraction is established.

I’m looking for someone who’s also looking for something meaningful just with added bdsm aspect. Ideally, you’re also living in Asia (easier to visit each other that way) and is around my age or older. You have a dominant side and is capable of leading in and out of the bedroom. You try to live your life with integrity, know the meaning of boundaries, consent, effort and consistency.

If this post speaks to you, send me a short message about yourself and a recent sfw photo. I know long distance relationship is not for everybody so if you can also include why you’re open to try it w me.

u/poutylips_89 — 6 days ago

32 [F4M] (Online only) - Canada Day shenanigans 🤭🥵

It's humid as hell outside and I'm looking for someone to raise the temperature even higher, if you're interested, please take a look at my pinned post on my profile if you fit! Please don't send any D pics or one worded messages as your first reply.

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u/girlfromthee6 — 6 days ago

24 [F4M] - Asian | Looking for a relationship

Hi! I'm a 24 yrs old Asian who's genuinely looking for a real relationship, something pure, intentional, and built on a strong connection. I'm definitely a date to marry kind of person, so I'm hoping to meet someone who's looking for the same.

About me:

-5'0", 50kg, petite

-Working as an IT

-Introverted, kind, understanding, and a bit clingy

-Girly

-Enjoy reading books and sleeping

-Im a Pisces

Looking for someone who is:

-Older and taller than me

-Working

-Emotionally intelligent

-Affectionate and communicative

-Enjoys keeping in touch through updates (I respect working hours)

If you're looking for something meaningful and think we'd get along, feel free to send me a message with a short introduction about yourself.

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u/merakitrends — 8 days ago

25 [F4M] Asian wife LF for someone to chat with

Me [33] and my Asian wife [25] are looking for any YOUNG and FIT guys to chat with. We prefer someone with camera. We are in a long distance relationship and would love someone to join us.

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u/J4m01 — 6 days ago

36 [f4m] sf bay area - looking for nothing in particular

hi! i got out of a bad relationship and haven’t thought about a mans for a whiles. but i am missing the hand holding and body cuddles. :)

im 36, asian, 5’3, 145 on a good day and im working on it? 🤪

looking for someone

  • older 34+ only plz, mature, and a clear communicator like if you wanna get down let’s do it, if you’re busy, that’s cool just lmk
  • casual, situationship material
  • funny like me! (especially when i’m high)

potential dates

  • get high on mushrooms and look at art all friggin day
  • stay hydrated, drink molly tea, maybe drop half a tab hehe

i guess im just looking for someone cute to put my hands on while im high. if that doesn’t do it for ya idk what will!

i’m a clown, if you’re a clown, hit me up. no nonsense, no grammar, and especially no dick pics pls. 😳💖

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u/meongmeongmeong — 7 days ago

31 [F4M] Los Angeles ~Latina LF for you.

Hi. I’m 31f Latina looking to talk. I either need a friend or a boyfriend. I moved out here and have only found crappy people or men.

Keep me company tonight .. Only Asian + Older. Not into cheating or FWB or games. I mean it. I want an actual conversation. Please. Don’t try me, if you can’t handle it.

Yes. I’m wifey material, and I’m pretty. 😌 I am not interested in the just hi how are you? I’m fine and you? Lol let’s talk in depth. Convince me why I should talk to you. 😉 not into the fukboi games. Dont come into my DMs if you’re playing games or trying to get in my pants.

Don’t message me if you won’t give me the attention I need, I block after no contact for 24 hours lol. I’m just a girl who wants to drive you wild 🎀✨💋 don’t waste my time. Understand?

🫩 I’m not easy. Please don’t ask me to sleep with you.

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u/Kooky_Tea_6670 — 8 days ago

33[F4M] -NYC- Black/Caribbean woman’s last ditch effort to find LTR before joining a fucking monastery lol

Greetings Earth Dwellers, intergalactic female in search of….. okay now that I’ve gotten your attention. Hi, I’m Rae, you’ve seen me here before but cleeeeeearly nothing has worked so 457282 times a charm 🤗

Not opposed to distance but you must be willing to travel ✈️🚊and close the gap in a reasonable time frame sweetheart. Not looking for a penpal! I’m also not opposed to moving out of the USA, so don’t count yourself out.

I’m 33, childfree, lurking and mugging folks in NYC 🤺

I am 👹:
🦇 Quite cute I promise. Will send photos quickly to establish attraction.
🦇 5’4 in reality but 6’7 in theory. lol seriously I do wear a lot of heels so here’s hoping you’re into that.
🦇 Primarily an alt girlie so hopefully you like black girls in all black
🦇 A HEAVY lifter 🏋🏽‍♀️ so I’m relatively fit and and can probably squat you bby boy 🙂‍↕️
🦇 Big Tiddie Goth GF- not to honk my own horns but I’m anime status over here 🍒
🦇 Lover of all things HORROR. I’m talking movies, literature, decor. So I hope you do too!
🦇 Collector of oddities, and curiosities. I’m talking antique/vintage photographs, bone/tooth jewelry, taxidermy and I can go on and on!
🦇 A gamer! PC master race bby💪🏾 I mostly do horror strategy games( SWF in DBD with me) and simulators/reg strategy. Willing to learn to play your fave games too.
🦇 In grad school obtaining a Masters in Natural Resources with 2 additional certifications(ask me about it?). Your future lady is smart 🤓
🦇 Full time government career but I PROMISE I’m one of the good guys. More on this if we connect ✨
🦇 kind, caring, compassionate and a lover girl at heart. I’m very observant and love to take care of my partner in the ways that count.
🦇 Parents fave. I kid you not parents of ALL races love me. I triple dog dare you to take me home👀

Look I’m ready to bounce on it silly style until we are old and gray🥹 Isn’t that romantic?!

You 🫵🏽 are:
✨29-37ish
✨ 5’9 and above. I love to wear high shoes but I still enjoy feeling smol
✨ INTACT hairline, please, I beg of thee
✨ FIT. I’m fit and would like someone who matches me in that aspect.
✨ Facially attractive. Attraction is important because I like to be intimate(a lot) with my partner so it’s imperative that we are attracted to each other
✨ A dork, a geek, a nerd, and whatever other descriptors that peg you as someone with varied interests you can teach me about/we can discuss.
✨ Educated!
✨ A career that allows you to financially support yourself, preferably doing something that you love.
✨A nice, pretty, juicy di…disposition 😅
✨ Desire to pledge allegiance to this ass eventually (monogamous LTR)
✨Down to try new things!
✨✨Bonus points if you’re alt, super bonus points if you have long hair

This dating journey has been a HELLSCAPE full of JUMPSCARES and 13th reasons to end it all lmao Let’s make this go around fun! Let’s explore abandoned places🏰, make a pact with some ghosts👻, or form a crow thievery crime syndicate🐦‍⬛. With me you’re bound to have an amazing time love!

🛑 Not 420 friendly, or substances in general. You do you baby but I’m not into smokers of weed(um or crack, er or meth? Just no drugs ok😭)

✨Be ready to send pictures relatively quickly. I don’t want to catch a vibe and then there’s no mutual attraction.

Looking forward to hearing from you. Kisses 💋

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u/Royal_Size_7129 — 9 days ago

29[F4M] US - thinking about asking for permission

Way back when I used to add people, have them mute while they listen to me play/ edge and eventually beg for permission to 💦😩. Yes they knew walking into it lol

Ahhhh i miss those days. I wonder if i should do it again tbh

(I ask them to mute cause Im really picky w voices. Plus can never find a guy who fits my personality/can turn me on)

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u/SeniorRice285 — 7 days ago

24 [M4F] HK - Do girls actually take a look at guys bulge down there like how guys see boobs?

I’m becoming more self aware of some of the stares I got while wearing a normal sports shorts. Some ppl (M and F) gave me a look, which made me realized I do have bulge everywhere I go. And no, I was not hard at that time.. it’s just mine’s pretty thick, so it’s bound to be visible.. especially if I wear white shorts.

So just wondering if girls also look at the bulge down there just like how guys sometimes look at girls boobs? and is it a turn on for you guys?

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u/Born-Chapter-6778 — 9 days ago

35 [F4M] #ANAHEIM - TALL AND FIT WITH THE WETTEST & TIGHTEST THROAT AND PUSSY IN OC…IM HOSTING

I’m in OC and I’m hosting, looking for some fun guys that want to just have some fun. Come over…get sucked…or fuck me…or both…and we enjoy we can make it a routine thing, or leave it as a one time.

Willing to travel for the right guy.

DM ME IF SERIOUS AND INTERESTED. Southern California guys only please.

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u/Tastemysyrup — 9 days ago