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24[F4M] just looking to chat a little tonight

Looking for close in age, English fluency, and asian, thanks :)

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u/Civil_Combination857 — 8 hours ago

30 [f4m] singapore - visiting 5/28-5/31, show me around?

doing a quick weekend trip but have no solid plans and wanna make the most of it :)

hoping to find someone who’ll take me around to the best hawker stalls, food courts, shopping, and tourist sights

25-40 preferred but open. sfw and maybe nsfw if we vibe ;)

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u/xxxthrowawayxxx000 — 13 hours ago

28 [F4M] #LosAngeles or online - Korean looking for fwb fun

28 year old Korean here looking for fun guys to talk to (Asian or mixed with Asian only). I'm based in Los Angeles and open to talking with guys from around here or other parts of the country or world since I travel pretty often. I like hiking, beaches, travel, exploring and looking for guys around my age or older or guys who are mature and 20+. If you're interested and would like to chat feel free to message me with more about you and your interests and what you're looking for :)

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u/No_Pumpkin6107 — 16 hours ago

19[f4m] #online #washington looking for my forever

Hi I’m Leona! I’m a shy introvert who is looking for a guy around my age to fall in love with.

I’m cute, 5’1, and I love anime namely demon slayer, personality stuff, true crime, makeup, drawing, and coming up with ideas.

I’m looking for a loyal, honest, supportive, kind, and caring boyfriend who is clingy and sweet. (And enjoys some of my interests hehe.) I’d also love if he was extroverted but that’s not a requirement.

\*I’m looking for something serious and long-term, no flings!\*

Hope to talk to you soon! :)

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u/leonalovelies — 1 day ago

28F [F4M] #Chicago - Local FWB wanted

About me: Early forties, Chicago , curves and some extra padding. I’m told I’m fun to be around—make of that what you will.

What I’m looking for: A regular thing with someone single and uncomplicated. No baggage, no drama, no “it’s complicated” situations.

Looking for easy, comfortable company—the kind where it just flows without any weirdness or pressure. I like clean-cut and put-together. Spontaneous works best for me—bonus points if you’re not the type who needs 48 hours notice. 420 friendly is a plus but not a dealbreaker.

Ages 20–50, Chicago .

Want a reply? Lead with: Your age?
Where in Chicago you are? Your ethnicity?

No info = no response. Basic reading comprehension is necessary

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u/Harriet-Donovan — 2 days ago

24 [F4M] Anywhere - Looking for serious relationship

Hewo! It might be difficult but I'll try my luck here!
All my life, I just know I'm not the type of person to settle with flings or casual relationships.
I feel at ease when I know I'm in a serious/long-term relationship.

So I thought why not try my luck here? :)
Anyway, about me:

- 24, biological female, straight
- Southeast Asian
- Into video games (FPS & Military Sim)
- Has a competitive job
- Has a dark humor ehehe
- Into world history/politics
- Clingy & loves to cook!
- Love language: physical touch & quality time
- Introvert
- This is me btw: https://imgur.com/a/ZbVtA1r

I'm looking for:

- Straight male
- 24-28 years old
- White (sorry this is just a preference!)
- Into video games (willing to try & play the same games as I do)
- Has a stable job
- Also has a dark humor
- Wants a serious relationship
- Wants to have kids/family
- Can be either extrovert/introvert

If ever you're exactly or somehow the guy I described & if you think I'm your type, please message me!🥹💐

No creeps pls! STRICTLY SFW! I want something serious & I don't want anything nsfw... not my thing!!!

u/straaawberryjam — 1 day ago

23 [F4M] #Manhattan NY, I will be down to explore a continuous meet ups.

Are you local or nearby and will be down to meet for a NSA meet ups, if you have a fantasy to explore or kinks, then I think we are looking for the same thing, no love, just explore things with each other.

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u/Ill_Put_8173 — 3 days ago

26 [F4M] Latina looking for someone to flirt and vent abt life

Want someone to flirt with and vent about your problems? I’m your person. Life gets lonely when you’re busy, and honestly I’m just looking for some connection.

I’ve got pictures on my profile if you want to see what I look like. Unfortunately, I’ll only reply if you send a link to a picture of yourself or something similar - a lot of weirdos out there :( gotta b safe, sorry.

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u/Mango_Flower — 4 days ago

26[F4M] white girl interested in Asian guys! Online (Poland)

Hey! So as said in the title I'm a 26 year old from Poland (Polish myself) and I'm interested in talking with Asian guys.

I'm aware it's a NSFW sub but I'm not looking for just NSFW chats, I want to have some sort of a chat buddy I can just talk with about whatever comes up. It can be NSFW as well, but only NSFW gets very boring and annoying if it's oversaturated. I'm looking for people from all over the world, so don't worry about me being located in Poland!

NSFW - I'm actually a virgin as I never met a man I would be interested in that way and actually able to proceed with anything further. But I'm quite interested in many different kinks like breeding for example! Just don't try to call yourself daddy/master/whateverelseofthatsort and it's fine, also I'm absolutely childfree despite the breeding kink.

If you want to message me, please remember to include at least a short introduction! I'm not going to respond to empty chat requests, lone emojis or just "hi". If you already messaged me and I haven't responded, there's a possibility I just didn't see the message in the sea of spam, so you can bump it up!

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u/YourNotLocalGirl — 5 days ago

30 [F4R] Seattle or Online - Looking for friends who do stuff together~

Looking mostly to chat a little with randoms in my spare time and hopefully make a friend or two! Looking purely for platonic friends -- bonus points if you are local to the Seattle/Burien area! Online is also okay, especially if you have a fucked up sleep schedule like me.

I click best with people who have gremlin energy. Most of my friends whom I've instantly clicked with have ADHD so someone on the same wavelength helps!

I like:

  • Going out for good food. I love almost all cuisines but my top 3 are sichuan, ethiopian, and japanese (specifically sushi. i think i can survive solely on raw fish)
  • Playing chill, cozy games.
  • Honestly anything low energy these days. I've been a little pessimistic about current happenings.
  • Reading. I'm currently reading "Careless People", but I just finished Heated Rivalry and The Long Game because I watched it and it gave me a lot of dopamine 🫣
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u/apuckeredcatbutthole — 4 days ago
▲ 3 r/r4rasian+2 crossposts

Hope you had a good weekend! I’m looking for a woman to build a connection with to spend my time and grow with. Hoping to create exciting memories together. I’m open to any type of relationship whether it be NSA, FWB, or a long-term relationship. Whatever happens, happens.

I’m 34, mixed Asian/Hispanic, active, and 5’6.

I’m located in Sparks, I just moved here and I’m looking to see what’s out here. Distance isn’t an issue, I’m open to seeing someone as far as Sacramento and anywhere in between.

Hit me up with a picture of yourself so we can verify each other, and then get to know each other! :)

https://imgur.com/a/dQdJzZQ

u/langbangs — 4 days ago

40 [F4M] Florida - Looking for something beyond the surface level?

Single men, 35+, in Florida only, interested in chatting, chilling and seeing where things may go and grow?

Only interested in a relationship or friends.
Not looking for casual, poly, ONS, FWB, ENM or BDSM …

I’m 5ft- short not tiny, mixed Asian, a brunette with a short edgy cut, brown eyes, a few tattoos, divorced, no kids, pretty sarcastic, not easily offended, music is everything, I’m a super klutz and an unfortunate night owl.

Please be single, a man that does not have a partner or that is married, at least 35 and live in FL full-time.

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u/P1nt_Siz3d — 4 days ago

34 [F4M] NYC - Are you looking for some virtual love & affection?

I’m a workaholic with a high lust drive. I don’t have time to date, and I’m not sure I’m ready to date. But I would love some companionship for the day my 🐈‍⬛ needs kisses. Maybe you’re married and deprived of the attention you need. Maybe you’re young and into older women. Or maybe you just need someone to talk you through the nut over the phone. Let’s chat she how we can assist each other.

To be clear. I’m interested in Asian men

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u/Silent_Run_422 — 5 days ago

22[F4M]-Philippines, Looking forward to connect with interesting people online.

Hello! I'm a 22-year-old Filipina seeking an online connection with someone. If you're interested in a mutually beneficial arrangement, feel free to message me for more details. Looking forward to hearing from you!

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u/TraditionEffective84 — 5 days ago

39 [F4M] Seoul - Couple looking for male support

Visiting the city in June, wife is Korean and we are up to play with locals and expats. Also willing to han gout first and enjoy the vibe of the location. We are both straight, not interested in further females/couples.

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u/bp-9284 — 4 days ago

27 [F4M] Seoul - Any Asian-Americans here? Seeking friends & hangouts!

Hi guys,

I'm a 27F from Montreal and I'm here in Seoul until the end of October. I'm here to do research thanks to a grant from a Canadian funding organization (I'll refrain from boring you right away, but feel free to ask if you want to know more). I've met a ton of Korean friends here, but there's a part of me that misses the ease of interactions you get from people who are on the same wavelength culturally and linguistically (no shade at all LOL).

I've posted here in the past and always got great results. Before anybody jumps to conclusions: yes, I am looking for friends, but I'm also single and not opposed to seeing where things go if we vibe. I'm half Sri Lankan myself, so maybe not "Asian" in the traditional sense of the term (I feel like most people take Asian to mean East and maybe Southeast Asian), but I tend to find myself drawn to people who have a similar cultural background. I like people who share my values - being educated, family-oriented, ambitious, wordly, etc - and I've found that men from my own community and others across Asia often meet these criteria. For reference, this means I tend to like East/Southeast/South Asian men, with the occasional Latino and Arab guy thrown into the mix lol.

I've found in my short time here that Korean guys largely don't really find me attractive, and that's understandable since I'm a far cry from the beauty standard here (pale, thin, and with "cute" features). I've had way more success with Asian men in North America - and that's fine, because there's something to be said about the level of compatibility you'll find with someone who shares a hyphenated identity. Hence the post title... But if you're Korean from Korea proper and see this post, and you wish to reach out, don't let any of what I'm saying stop you.

I'm hoping to make connections in the city, whether you're passing through or based here permanently. I love meeting up with people and talking, trying new restaurants, and checking out fun activities in new neighborhoods. Again, I am looking for friends, and anything that escalates from there will stem naturally from a foundation of friendship. If you want to jump straight to being FWBs or anything else that's romantic in nature, I kindly ask that you look elsewhere.

Hope to hear from you soon.

~ Rachel

u/awhisperinthevoid — 6 days ago

37 [F4M] #NorCal - Seeking a spark

Hi there, I'm your typical 37 year old that got caught up with existing and not paying attention to finding my own happiness for a very long time. Lately I've gotten much better at finding a better work-life balance and now would like to find a man around my age willing to help me find my spark again!

Got a list of restaurants you've been wanting to try, sports games or comedy shows you want to watch and would love to have someone join you? (if you need someone to catch a Giants game with I'm always down for that)

If you can relate to the difficulty of finding and keeping new IRL friends, an activity partner and foodie friend then let me know.

If you’re looking to start off with nsfw stuff, I’m not your girl, so please don’t ask or send me those things.

If you’re up for a chat, lmk your age, location, and what made you reach out.

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u/Cute-Passenger-9151 — 6 days ago

23 [F4M] #Philadelphia County, looking for a continuous NSA meet ups

I'm Latina not looking for love, but down to meet and explore each others kinks, no feelings just meet ups and getting satisfaction, so save me the stress of asking you for pictures or what you're looking for also.

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u/AbbynwvOctopus — 5 days ago

21 [F4M] Newyork/Anywhere - hoping to find a kind chat buddy who enjoys talking throughout the day

looking for someone to share laughs, random updates, and sweet conversations we can talk about music, life goals, childhood memories, or whatever comes to mind

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u/Cute-Vanilla1315 — 6 days ago

26 [f4r] #sf bay area - lonely & depressed, looking for friends

hi, ima loser asian female looking for people to be friends with or talk to. not a larper, i am actually a shut in with barely any friends. i want to move away from the bay area someday, but for now i am stuck here. this place is a tech hell hole; im constantly hearing about layoffs n ai.

my hobbies r figure collecting, anime, vidyas, and bedrotting. im hoping to find someone who would want to talk and game with me. idc age or gender, just be 18+ and preferably asian too. no nsfw or fwb tho. i am not a hoe, seller, or ethot.

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u/chocobani99 — 8 days ago