u/prettyperc30

one thing i’ve noticed as i’ve gained weight (purposely lol), is that clothes are absolutely terrible for shorter women who have curves. my style has kind of been all over the place but even simple basics i have issues finding, such as jeans, skirts, and especially shorts😭

im 4’11, so ive always had some issues finding pants, but now with curves it’s even worse. the weight for me seems to go straight to my hips, thighs, and butt, which is great, i love it! but it makes shopping so much harder. i’ve always loved low rise pants (unfortunately that’s very hard to find for my frame), but i’ve noticed that any pants, skirts, and shorts, no matter what style, the wider the hips, the bigger they make the crotch area and length.

now im very lucky and haven’t been getting a ‘fupa’, but it seriously sucks trying on a pair of pants and it giving me a ‘jeanis’. skirts, especially MINI SKIRTS, they end up fitting great upon the waist and then boom, some how the skirt is now to my knees..

i guess i was just using this to complain, but also if any other women know about clothes or brands great for curvy shorter women, PLEASE LET ME KNOW😭 i’ve been thrifting all my life and LOVE fashion and a cute outfit, as much as i love the fetish, i refuse to let it stop me from feeling confident in a cute outfit. i wanted to try sewing myself but it’s for sure a commitment to buy a machine, and i don’t think i’d be very good at it tbh.

hii! so i'm a bit newer in the community and have been documenting my gain now so far for about over a month. recently about a week ago, i got super sick with a cold and now have pneumonia:( my appetite has been pretty much gone for the entire time i've been sick and i'm feeling so discouraged.

i really enjoy stuffings and do a lot of content around them, but since my appetite has been gone, i haven't been able to do any. it really bums me out since i just started doing this and want to be consistent! i'm on meds and antibiotics now to help get over this sickness, but my appetite has still been low! does anyone have any ideas on how to still indulge with a smaller appetite?

it also just makes me feel like i'm not being a very good feedee and might be disappointing my supporters and admirers:( i did just order some protein shakes since i've tried them before and they work great, but i wanna be back to my best before doing a small rapid gain thing.

i guess i'm also just using this to vent a little since it has me feeling so low, i've finally found something i love to do and share with others and now my sickness has completely shut it down. i also feel a bit of pressure to just continue if i'm not feeling my best, which i wish i could, but it's just not possible.