Stonewall sports
My boyfriend of 2 years is in a kickball and volleyball team. On Sunday mornings he always disappears and goes to those called mixers after or before the games I don’t even know anymore, at first I thought it was a healthy hangout but I discovered some text messages in his phone that sound like he is going there to do more than play sports; at this point I am super insecure about our relationship cause we are monogamous, we are from different backgrounds, he is white and I am Venezuelan. At times I think that I am over reacting cause it sounds like I don’t want him to have fun but I feel like he is going there to flirt with boys or have random sex.
Any of you play on these leagues? I really like him and want things to work but I have my doubts now, how would you handle a situation like this, I thought that I would be over this kind of lifestyle by now (we are both 37) but I don’t wanna sound restrictive, like telling him not to hang out with other gay guys or go to these gathering cause it makes me feel insecure And I really don’t like it.
I think I want a more mature relationship now and I don’t know how to tell him I am not ok with this, am I being too much? I don’t go out with my friends to drink anymore cause I want to spend more time as a couple. What do you guys think?