My ball slipped through the cage last week (my fault I pulled the cage too far apart for a more comfortable fit) so I pulled the other through and took it off, my partner held the keys all weekend even though I wasn't locked, which also meant I couldn't relock.
I managed to find some extra keys to put on a tighter cage yesterday, but I'm not feeling as submissive as I was last week.
What's the best way to get back into subspace in a short amount of time?
u/pullingsneakies — 26 days ago