u/pyleoh

I've realized I have a huge crush on someone at work. They are over double my age, sweet kind, and funny. I have no clue how I would approach him at all because I've never been in this situation. It makes it much worse because he is married. Ever since I noticed this crush I've seen older guys completely different. I'm noticing how into them I am and how I have no clue to how to approach them. I would love to be able to chat with people and get more comfortable getting closer to some. Making some friends on here. I'm trying to explore these new feelings online because most of the guys I have a chance to talk to or flirt with are all guys I work with. Would love to see how older guys feel about the situation, if they feel just as awkward in the situation and if it gets easier. Would love to make some friends and maybe make the chat more of an ongoing thing through the day to day. It would be fun to understand a bit more and to build some confidence so I can try to use what I learn here in my real life.

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Hey, I'm 23. I've recently realized that I am into older men. I haven't been able to act on what I feel. I'm a very awkward person so it makes it hard to chat with people to begin with. It's harder when I've never been more than just friendly with anyone older than me. I'm hoping to chat with some guys and build up my confidence. I would love to make older friends and be able to get closer with some guys. I am into how kind and caring older men can be. How funny and experienced they are. I enjoy how they make me feel safer and cared for. I am more of a homebody so going out to meet people isn't something that I do very often or at all. I recently met someone who made me realize how attractive an older man could be. I shocked myself with how comfortable I am with a large age gap. I may be nervous but I love chatting and I'm excited to talk to people! I want to know if older men find me interesting or attractive. I'm hoping to find someone I can have a long term thing with. It would be nice to build and learn more about each other

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Hey, I'm 23. I've recently realized that I am into older men. I haven't been able to act on what I feel. I'm a very awkward person so it makes it hard to chat with people to begin with. It's harder when I've never been more than just friendly with anyone older than me. I'm hoping to chat with some guys and build up my confidence. I would love to make older friends and be able to get closer with some guys. I am into how kind and caring older men can be. How funny and experienced they are. I enjoy how they make me feel safer and cared for. I am more of a homebody so going out to meet people isn't something that I do very often or at all. I recently met someone who made me realize how attractive an older man could be. I shocked myself with how comfortable I am with a large age gap. I may be nervous but I love chatting and I'm excited to talk to people! I want to know if older men find me interesting or attractive. I'm hoping to find someone I can have a long term thing with. It would be nice to build and learn more about each other

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Hey, I'm 23. I've recently realized that I am into older men. I haven't been able to act on what I feel. I'm a very awkward person so it makes it hard to chat with people to begin with. It's harder when I've never been more than just friendly with anyone older than me. I'm hoping to chat with some guys and build up my confidence. I would love to make older friends and be able to get closer with some guys. I am into how kind and caring older men can be. How funny and experienced they are. I enjoy how they make me feel safer and cared for. I am more of a homebody so going out to meet people isn't something that I do very often or at all. I recently met someone who made me realize how attractive an older man could be. I shocked myself with how comfortable I am with a large age gap. I may be nervous but I love chatting and I'm excited to talk to people! I want to know if older men find me interesting or attractive. I'm hoping to find someone I can have a long term thing with. It would be nice to build and learn more about each other

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Hey, I'm 23. I've recently realized that I am into older men. I haven't been able to act on what I feel. I'm a very awkward person so it makes it hard to chat with people to begin with. It's harder when I've never been more than just friendly with anyone older than me. I'm hoping to chat with some guys and build up my confidence. I would love to make older friends and be able to get closer with some guys. I am into how kind and caring older men can be. How funny and experienced they are. I enjoy how they make me feel safer and cared for. I am more of a homebody so going out to meet people isn't something that I do very often or at all. I recently met someone who made me realize how attractive an older man could be. I shocked myself with how comfortable I am with a large age gap. I may be nervous but I love chatting and I'm excited to meet people! I want to know if older men find me interesting or attractive. I'm hoping to find someone I can have a long term thing with. It would be nice to build and learn more about each other