u/qqqqtoast

This is something I've wanted to explore with a partner (penetrating her while she is peeing), but I have some questions that hopefully some people here can answer.

The most important is about lubrication. Does peeing cause any problems here? I'm guessing this could be an issue depending on the position (missionary could be worse because pee would go down into the vagina, but doggy would avoid this).

I'm also curious if you can still pee while being penetrated. I guess the answer will vary from person to person.

And then I'm just curious if there are other things I should know about trying this that may not be obvious.

I have some fantasies that are in line with the primal/predator/prey dynamic, but isn't really the dark "lost in the woods, being hunted down" fantasy. It's more of a bratty dynamic? Not really a CNC thing, since everyone's consenting, but it's adjacent to that too I guess.

I would love my partner to see that I want to have sex with her, and be receptive to it, but also try to make it as hard as physically possible for me to mount her or have sex with her. I would make it easy for her to break free at first, but I'd make it harder for her every time until I finish.

Or I'd love to be on the other end of this too. Very horny partner climbing on me, trying her hardest to mount me, and I try my best to get her off me until I cave and let her finish.

I love the idea of breeding, especially if it's helping someone who can't be impregnated by their partner. And I'm a virgin, so I really want to have sex for the first time. But I don't actually want to have kids, even as a sperm donor.

I couldn't imagine ever actually doing this, but the idea of not telling a partner I had a vasectomy before trying to impregnate her has been on my mind. Especially the thought of her getting more desperate to get pregnant and encouraging me to have more sex with her. Maybe even telling me that I should just pay her a visit to inseminate her whenever I want to masturbate. All while trying to prevent her from finding out the truth.

I've had this kink since childhood, and I've mentioned here before how I had misconceptions about how sex worked that were related to pee (like not realizing ejaculation was different from pee, so I thought a man had to pee in a woman for her to get pregnant). I know I'm not the only one who had this misconception, but I'm one of the only people I know who fetishized it. For me there wasn't a single moment when I realized that pee kinks are uncommon, but it's something I slowly came to realize over time as I heard it mentioned on the internet and even heard people talk about it IRL, often with disgust.

I guess pee is considered disgusting (despite finding it hot I don't like the smell), but then again, so are many other reproductive fluids, especially outside of a sexual encounter. In some ways, I still find it surprising that it's not one of the most popular kinks, though I never expected that everyone would love it either. Then again, it is underreported and stigmatized. And there are definitely people out there who aren't into this kink but understand it and/or are willing to try it for a partner.

And I'm willing to admit that I might just be weird. I'm much more willing to engage in pee play than any sort of oral sex (yes, giving and receiving).