u/rabbit_couple

We have been together for 10+ years. I am always looking to change things a bit but ideas are running out. I am looking for this community for some ideas but removing things that have already been proposed in previous posts like anal, pegging, role play. I have also excluded group sex as that’s not easy to include in a daily environment.

Here is our list so far of super spicy things we tried.

1. blind folded and tied up while the other teases

2. free use

3. masturbation at any time

4. public play - trench coat with nothing underneath in public and/or revealing/sexy wear during outings

5. sextext with strangers on Reddit

6. toys including a wireless vibrator, bad dragon and double ended dildo

7. watching porn together

Any others?

We have been together for 10+ years and we pretty much have the same routine.

Sharing ours, we would typically have sex 3-4x a week. We have talked about increasing it to 5 or have days where we have sex twice.

We start by making out, kissing all over, light touches. This followed by oral his and her. We would then go through 2-3 positions before finishing…

We enjoy sensual sex but we recently going into a more hardcore direction… oral would involve some choking, added anal and finishes can include a facial.

Is that married sex is like?