u/rainbowpancakes90

I've been unsure on how to write this all day, so I've ultimately decided to just lay it all out.

I want someone confident. Someone who knows what she brings to the table and is tired of settling. Someone who KNOWS her worth, and wants someone who can see that. If you've been called vain, cocky or conceited.. well, here is your time to shine.

I know that sounds like a bit intense, but I've spent my life becoming the best version of myself. I'm fit, outgoing, successful, great career and friends, all the stuff you think you want in life and then some. But you have too, and here we are... so what's missing?

Passion. Lust. Genuine admiration for someone. Those little butterflies that pop up in your stomach when they send you a selfie, or that excitement that make you run to somewhere quiet for a voice note. I want to feel something that makes life feel alive again, makes us plan a trip to see each other and share all our favorite life moments.

Let's talk every day. Let's do calls, voice notes, facetime, selfies and videos. Let's become best friends in a way we've never had before. Let's become lovers in a way we always wished for.

Let's finally live.

And obviously, I am married.

I've been unsure on how to write this all day, so I've ultimately decided to just lay it all out.

I want someone confident. Someone who knows what she brings to the table and is tired of settling. Someone who KNOWS her worth, and wants someone who can see that. If you've been called vain, cocky or conceited.. well, here is your time to shine.

I know that sounds like a bit intense, but I've spent my life becoming the best version of myself. I'm fit, outgoing, successful, great career and friends, all the stuff you think you want in life and then some. But you have too, and here we are... so what's missing?

Passion. Lust. Genuine admiration for someone. Those little butterflies that pop up in your stomach when they send you a selfie, or that excitement that make you run to somewhere quiet for a voice note. I want to feel something that makes life feel alive again, makes us plan a trip to see each other and share all our favorite life moments.

Let's talk every day. Let's do calls, voice notes, facetime, selfies and videos. Let's become best friends in a way we've never had before. Let's become lovers in a way we always wished for.

Let's finally live.

Let's start this off with: If you aren't looking for something long term, I'm not for you. If you aren't someone who likes voice notes, selfies, calls, and possibly meeting, then I'm not for you. If you're someone who is scared of those huge feelings, then I am most certainly not for you.

So who am I for? I'm for the lover girl. The hopeless romantic who wants to talk about everything from work, to family, pop culture, and everything in between. Who wants to send me voice notes about her work day and the gossip that follows. That wants to see gym selfies and talk about our routines and goals.

Show me the woman who THRIVES with the ambitious, the extroverted, the intense. I want someone whose been told her whole life "you're a little too much" to be all that and more with me. Let's explore parts ourselves that we locked away because nobody could handle it.

We spend our lives full of responsibility, commitments and honestly, that isn't a bad thing. It's beautiful in it's own way. But what I want is us to chase that fantasy version of ourselves, with eachother. I want to grow and support you, and I want to feel the same way.

Some other little fun facts about me: Lover of travel, food, board games, hikes, history, technology, been deep diving into conspiracies and ancient civilizations, love a little anime, and will 100% spam you about whatever new self improvement book I read or some fun fact I just learned. I am always, always trying to learn and grow. And obviously, I am married.

So again, no pressure, but what I really want is someone who WANTS to fall inlove. Who knows her value, her worth and has an ego about it. Good, I do too. Let's embrace it and validate it together.

Let's start this off with: If you aren't looking for something long term, I'm not for you. If you aren't someone who likes voice notes, selfies, calls, and possibly meeting, then I'm not for you. If you're someone who is scared of those huge feelings, then I am most certainly not for you.

So who am I for? I'm for the lover girl. The hopeless romantic who wants to talk about everything from work, to family, pop culture, and everything in between. Who wants to send me voice notes about her work day and the gossip that follows. That wants to see gym selfies and talk about our routines and goals.

Show me the woman who THRIVES with the ambitious, the extroverted, the intense. I want someone whose been told her whole life "you're a little too much" to be all that and more with me. Let's explore parts ourselves that we locked away because nobody could handle it.

We spend our lives full of responsibility, commitments and honestly, that isn't a bad thing. It's beautiful in it's own way. But what I want is us to chase that fantasy version of ourselves, with eachother. I want to grow and support you, and I want to feel the same way.

Some other little fun facts about me: Lover of travel, food, board games, hikes, history, technology, been deep diving into conspiracies and ancient civilizations, love a little anime, and will 100% spam you about whatever new self improvement book I read or some fun fact I just learned. I am always, always trying to learn and grow.

So again, no pressure, but what I really want is someone who WANTS to fall inlove. Who knows her value, her worth and has an ego about it. Good, I do too. Let's embrace it and validate it together.