u/rainboy32

Hello!

I hope you’re doing well today or whenever you’re reading this.

 I’m actively looking to commit myself to someone, ideally for a female-led relationship. I have known that I am submissive for quite some time now but have never found the right situation to safely express myself as such. My interest in femdom was first discovered by an off-hand joke by one of my friends commenting that my ass was very slutty; it’s safe to say that it truly awoke something inside of me. To me a female-led relationship would look like me sat on my knees waiting to receive you at the door as you return home with a bath and a meal prepared for you. A clear contrast in our places in the power dynamic would be imperative for me so having that difference in power present at most times would be important. Besides that though I’m also looking for an actual life partner.

 A little about me then. I am 27 and currently living around Manchester but not in the city center. I’m of average height at 180cms with messy wavy/curly hair that I tend to brush back so it’s not in my face and have grey eyes. I weighed 82 kg as of last week but I promise most of that is in the right places. I’ll embed an image of myself for reference and will be more than happy to share more once we develop a level of respect and understanding - https://imgur.com/a/Yq0fjdh  .

Whilst initially my personality can come across as somewhat cold or snarky that’s definitely not the case and I will open up showing how soft I really am once I feel safe enough. I’m a rather quiet person preferring to stay home and read than going out, a trait my partner would ideally share. I have quite a few hobbies that I love to indulge in but I’ll only share a few here as to leave something for you to unravel later. As I just commented I am a big reader! I tend to primarily read books pertaining to philosophy, which is a huge interest of mine, but I do also like to try other genres such as norweigan wood which I guess would be classified as a romance? Physical fitness is also important to me. I aim to go to the gym at least 5 times a week with a specific weight regimen which I’ve done for a few years now. I also walk a lot, wandering off for a few hours at a time with headphones on. I definitely wouldn’t expect a partner to be into weightlifting like me however it would be nice to be able to go on walks together.

 A partner of mine would preferably be emotionally mature as it definitely would make me feel much safer to fully allow myself to be submissive as well as just being something I find attractive generally. I don’t have any physical preferences other than being relatively healthy and some curves certainly wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world. If you’d like to become healthier that’s something I could help with! The most important trait for me would be kindness and caring, it’s certain to get me on my knees. If you’d laugh at my sarcasm that would also be appreciated.

 My kinks are constantly evolving and developing but there are a core bunch of things I believe are mainstays:

1) Humiliation/Praise. Humiliation was my first real kink due to various reasons I’m sure we can discuss more in the future but praise is something I’ve very recently come to try and have enjoyed it.

2) Service. From my first paragraph you could probably infer that I’d love to be your own personal butler in private. Nothing would make me happier than being told to clear an apartment for you and making sure everything is sparkling clean! This doesn’t’ just have to be sexual I want to provide service for you in all aspects.

3) Worship. This could take the form of being asked to sit at your feet or telling you 1000 ways in which you’re truly amazing. It’s mainly about making you feel like the amazing woman you are whilst simultaneously reinforcing my place beneath you in the dynamic.

There are more things that I’m interested in but I didn’t want to simply vomit out a list of kinks at you. I’m also excited to learn more about your preferences too so that I could become a better submissive for you.

 Thank you very much for taking the time to read my post! I’m not particularly great about speaking about myself or the things I desire so I hope it wasn’t too painful an experience. I will look forward to receiving your message.