u/randojerker

Hi, guys.

I’m a guy in a straight relationship who’s curious about butt play and wants to explore on my own. I’ve had some sexual experiences with men in the past, but I’ve never actually had anal sex. Since I’m committed to my partner and not looking to hook up, I’m thinking a butt plug might be a good way to learn what I like safely and privately.

What size would you recommend? Diameter/length suggestions welcome. Should I start with a training kit or just buy one plug to begin? What about materials? Shape preferences for beginners? Any brand recs that are body-safe and not overpriced? Tips for insertion, warm-up, and how long to wear it at first?