HotPast Newbie Seeking Advice- Husband & Wife
37M Long time lurker of the HotPast sub, something I never thought would be a kink of mine until coming across it on Reddit a few years ago. My wife and I have married over 11 years and our past is something that we never really discussed and becoming a more recent kink of mine was something I had never brought up.
Saturday night we had a hot, crazy night, after a handful of drinks and some time at the strip club together I finally asked her about the biggest dick she had and she started to tell me about in college how she fucked two members of the basketball team. I was so turned and kept asking for more info, it was so hot and haven't been able to get it out of my head since and love it.
Few days pass and we start talking about everything that night, since we were pretty drunk, there were some gaps but I brought up the basketball team story and how much it turned me on and my kink for HotPast. She was surprised but into it. She also asked that we talk and use my HotPast which surprised me even more!
Long story short, as a longtime couple just now exploring this, what is some advice? I don't want her to become uncomfortable and it end up turning into a one time drunk night thing. I am hoping we can explore this and it lead us to even more places. For us newbies are there ground rules that should be set? Advice on how to make it as enjoyable for both of us as possible?
Thank you!