u/roseandvelvet

I don’t know how common this is but all my life (24F) I’ve only been able to orgasm while watching videos (especially focused on men pleasuring themselves or getting edged). I have had sex and my bf will eat me out sometimes for 15-20 min but I can never get there.
However it’ll take me less than 5 minutes by myself if I’m watching something that genuinely arouses me. A lot of people told me not to watch videos anymore but even when I go a long time without watching I can’t orgasm with my bf. :(