Family Won’t Approve
Okay so,
I have been dating this guy for a while. Lately, I’ve been trying to picture what a future will look like with him, and I’m honestly just having one hell of a time. It’s not that I don’t like/accept him. Because I do. But I have a very traditional family. My best friend is supportive but will sometimes make comments like ‘i don’t understand how people can be in long term relationships with someone in prison’. At the same time, she says nothing but positive things about me and him. I’m not worried about her, she can talk all the shit she wants, but I know she’ll support my decisions. It’s my family that I worry about. They don’t even agree with dating apps, so I already know they would never approve of me dating a guy with face tattoos and a criminal record. I’m not ashamed of him. I talk about him all the time to my friends. But I’m scared of my family treating me or him differently if I tell them. My family means a lot to me and I want them to accept him. But I just know they won’t. I’ve even thought about waiting until he gets out and not telling them that he was in prison. But they’ll do their own research and they’ll find out. Plus, I want him to be able to speak freely about what he was up to for 8 years. I feel like I’m stuck in a rut. I don’t want to lose him, but I don’t want to lose my family either. I don’t know what to do or where to go from here.