Sidney talks about Edging Part 2

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I've discussed this with a lot of my friends and they agree that there is nothing more satisfying than being on the cusp of an orgasm and then having the orgasm withheld. And it's not an act of meanness, it's actually a deliberate act to create an even more incredible orgasm and a really well-seasoned lover knows just how to do that. How to really read a woman's body, how to read my body and bring me just to the cusp where I'm ready to just burst and explode and suddenly take a little tangent, go off on a completely different track so that the excitement is still there and the perfect lover knows also not to wait too long but to wait just long enough to bring me to the brink of orgasm once again.

It just makes you ravenous because you know what you're going to have as the reward at the end. My favorite way is small, deliberate circles that are very, very light to the touch followed by bigger circles and then that tapping. It's almost like tapping and listening for an echo.

It's so subtle and it's so precise. The down-ups are like what really brings the roller coaster not to a halt, just it slows things down and that's a really important aspect for me to achieve a really incredible orgasm. And as I'm coming down from all that excitement, just do some gentle stroking up and down and avoid the clitoris completely and then let me know that by virtue of coming up towards the clitoris once again that we're about to go on for another part of the ride and go up and down some more.

For me honestly, if I could tell it to every future lover, those small circles done with passion very, very lightly followed by bigger circles with just a little bit more pressure and then building into a little bit of tapping and that is what gives me that incredible feeling that I've been on a roller coaster ride, that it was the best ride of my life and I can't wait to go on it again.

u/rprprptr — 14 hours ago

Sidney talks about Edging Part 1

Full transcript from original two minute video:

Orgasms are like ice cream. There are lots of different flavors. And probably vanilla is how masturbation is for me because I know exactly what I'm doing.

I know what it's gonna be like. I like vanilla. But if I look back on my life and think about the best orgasms and had to isolate the common factor of what made them so perfect, the greatest orgasms are ones that were provided to me by somebody else.

I was taken on a roller coaster ride. If you've ever gone down a roller coaster and just screamed with the thrill and the laughter and that release because you're so excited, that's what a really great orgasm has been like for me. Having a man who is very, very attentive and is not going for the finish line.

The goal is to withhold the orgasm so that the buildup is bigger and stronger. Like, we're gonna start out slow. You build up.

You're closer. And withhold. And then you come up.

And then you're kind of like at this peak. And you think that this is gonna be where the big explosion is gonna take place. And instead of making that happen, you go down and you scream because you're exhilarated with the anticipation, but you know that you're gonna go up somewhere else again.

We were going to a higher place. He can feel that my lips are swelling, that my body is ready for it. And so he's the driver of this roller coaster.

I'm the passenger, but I'm willingly going along in the ride. And we're taking this ride together. Now it gets to a point where you're so excited that you can't wait.

The depth of that orgasm is going to be, you talk about earthquakes, it's gonna be earth shattering.

u/rprprptr — 14 hours ago

Simple tips to help achieve or have better orgasms?

For example, I noticed it seems easier for my wife to achieve orgasm when we play music. She says it helps her relax and focus. I notice that women are listening to earbuds sometimes in the videos and I assume it's music (unless she's watching porn or something).

Anyone else have any simple tips like this?

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