u/sam-sill

How do u deal with one sided love ... Without loosing the other person ?

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So there's a top i hookup with, almost exclusively (idk about his side tho) ... For about a year now, and we don't do much other than meet to hookup, nor do we text much unless it's for the purposes of a hookup. But he's been acting more intimate, saying more extreme stuff, and he says he wants to be together.\\

Now ... I'm a size queen, and he has a maaaaaasssive dick and a beautiful body and i love the sex with him, he's also nice and basically a puppy that does as i tell him to ... But that's the extent of it, i only think of him when i m horny, and i was clear about not wanting a relationship when we first met, he says he understands, but keeps trying to be "boyfriendy", and i don't want to just come out and say "i only want u for ur dick" cuz he's a bit of the shy silent type, and i m afraid it would ruin what we have going.\\

I m looking for suggestions on how to make him loose any hope of a relationship with me ... But not affect the sex. I realise it's quite the asshole behaviour from me .. But I'm not emotionally available for anyone r8 now, and it took a looot to find a dick of his quality and i don't want to loose it.

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u/sam-sill — 6 days ago