Upcoming trip with FwB
I'm currently planning a trip with my "FwB" to go to a museum he's always wanted to visit, and I've visited a couple of times. We've done a few day trips before, but this is the first time we're going to stay overnight somewhere.
Due to the distance, we'll need to stay at a hotel multiple night and eat out every night, which have me being a bit nervous. This is due to the stigma of me being a 40 year old younger woman to him, and I really don't want it to look like I'm his Sugar Baby or a Gold digger. But at the same time, I would want to dress up for when we're going out to eat as it's very rare treat for me. We're also looking to share a bed and I'm worried that the reception will suspect him buying sex from me.
So I would need some advice on how we should make this look in public and/or make my worries go away? I really want our trip to be good and I really look forwards to spend some time with him away from home. I just worried that stigmas will ruin it for us.
Sadly the "Father/Daughter" approach won't work for us as it's very apparent the age gap is to big for him to be my father, but to little for him to be my grandfather. So those approaches are sadly gone.