u/smprfidels

This just happened so I want to get it down before I forget anything.

I got a surprise chance to have a practice session today and had some things slightly different happen. I was edging like normal and when I got close to the point of no return ponr I tried to interrupt with the reverse Kegel. It didn't seem to help a ton but I definitely had a small orgasm and as it was finishing I ejaculated but stayed semi-hard with only a little bit of a refractory.

I got going again to see if I could usually when I practice I can get two orgasms even if I ejaculate the first time which I always do at this point. And the second time I decided not to change my stroking at all when I reached the point of no return and focus real hard on a reverse Kegel at that point to see what happened.

I had a significantly stronger orgasm and ejaculated a bit again, but it felt different there was something in my pelvis that I can't quite explain like a glow maybe.

My main goal with these practice sessions is to learn how to separate my orgasm from my ejaculation and I do feel like I've made progress I've had the first orgasm that wasn't super hard and then meet ejaculated immediately afterward at least once before maybe twice but I only get to practice a couple of times a week so progress is difficult.

If anybody has any suggestions on things I should change or try I would be happy to give them a shot when I get a chance I'm kind of excited I still think things are moving in the right direction I just need to get to the point where I can separate orgasm from ejaculation I've said before I don't really care about ejaculation I want to avoid the refractory. I want to be able to have an orgasm just as good as always and keep going like I didn't just have an orgasm. Or even find a way to ride a wave of orgasms similar it's the way my wife does

Sorry for any typos or grammar I'm not going to spend a lot of time cleaning this up too much although I did break it up so that it wasn't one long paragraph I thought about using AI to clean it up but so many people bitch about that here on Reddit that I decided not to this time.

Smpr

I define orgasm as the same feeling I discovered when I was about 7 year old; several seconds of euphoric bliss centered near my penis, followed by a relaxed state. I have been addicted ever since.

Later ejaculation became combined and at some point a refractory period.

I'm still pretty new to this process of learning to have multiple orgasms. I've tried a little bit of a couple of different methods but I would like to focus on a single method until I achieve reasonable success and then decide if I want to investigate other options.

My primary goal is more pleasure for my partner and me during sex so I'm not sure if a hands-free method like mindgasm which is very intriguing is the right place for me to start?

So far I've had the most success with edging and trying to learn to separate ejaculation from orgasm. I've definitely had tingles a couple of times and been able to have practice sessions that lasted in the neighborhood of an hour or more, but I have not had what I would call a non ejaculatory orgasm yet.

I have some interest in the I think it's called r/maledefinitiveguide And I got started on this journey watching videos on YouTube from the sexual Kung Fu channel.

Mindgasm has come highly recommended to me and I would definitely want to investigate it at some point but unless I misunderstanding something I don't think it matches with my initial goal of intercourse being more pleasurable for my wife and I...?

I think I'm looking for suggestions on the best/fastest(?) method of having more pleasure for longer without the refractory period with or without ejaculation or semen retention.

Thanks in advance for your kind suggestions.

Smpr

I'm still pretty new to this process of learning to have multiple orgasms. I've tried a little bit of a couple of different methods but I would like to focus on a single method until I achieve reasonable success and then decide if I want to investigate other options.

My primary goal is more pleasure for my partner and me during sex so I'm not sure if a hands-free method like mindgasm which is very intriguing is the right place for me to start?

So far I've had the most success with edging and trying to learn to separate ejaculation from orgasm. I've definitely had tingles a couple of times and been able to have practice sessions that lasted in the neighborhood of an hour or more, but I have not had what I would call a non ejaculatory orgasm yet.

I have some interest in the I think it's called r/maledefinitiveguide And I got started on this journey watching videos on YouTube from the sexual Kung Fu channel.

Mindgasm has come highly recommended to me and I would definitely want to investigate it at some point but unless I misunderstanding something I don't think it matches with my initial goal of intercourse being more pleasurable for my wife and I...?

I think I'm looking for suggestions on the best/fastest(?) method of having more pleasure for longer without the refractory period with or without ejaculation or semen retention.

Thanks in advance for your kind suggestions.

Smpr