Buspar + Wellbutrin is helping after a lifetime of dysfunction!
27F, I’ve posted in this community before about my various medical woes. Basically, I experienced primary anorgasmia and tried the following interventions:
Addyi, Vyleesi, Viagra cream, pelvic floor physical therapy (twice), pelvic floor muscle injections of steroids and nerve blocks, stopping Zoloft and birth control, hundreds of dollars in different kinds of sex toys, subscription to OMGyes, pelvic floor shockwave treatment, and I was even approved for a sacral neuromodulation implant but insurance denied it.
So, yeah, I’ve tried a lot. During this journey I was also diagnosed with autism, and we came to the conclusion that a lifetime of masking and constant tension has likely damaged my pudendal nerve.
My therapist, and the autism assessor who herself is autistic, mentioned that Buspar (buspirone) could potentially help with the daily overwhelm. I am not an anxious person, but I was struggling at that point so I figured I would try it. I’ve been on Wellbutrin this entire time, which has never helped my libido but seems to take the edge of my depression.
GIRL. I am on 5mg Buspar 2x/day, and I can now have 6+ mini orgasms with relative ease. I’ve never felt any differences in any of the interventions I’ve tried, so this is a pleasant surprise. The sensation seems to build up a lot easier. I think I’ll ask my doc if we can up the dose to see if it might get even better.
I’m hopeful that if I keep “exercising” these mini orgasms, and increase my dose, that hopefully they will build to a point where I get a real sense of mental/physical release I’ve been lacking my entire life :)