If I only have a foot fetish, is it considered femdom?
It turns out I have a foot fetish, and it's very strongly associated with female domination, something like being a "foot slave," but I don't like anything else related to femdom.
- Denial of orgasm and chastity: not a chance. I couldn't enjoy it if I didn't have orgasms or if I had a cage on my genitals.
- Pegging: I'm not attracted to anal play either.
- CBT, ballbusting: a light tap there and I wouldn't get up from the pain.
- Whipping, slapping: I don't like the idea of being in pain.
- A 24/7 relationship: I wouldn't like to feel like a slave outside of sessions. I like hugs, cuddles, receiving oral sex, etc.
- Being tied up: I also don't like the idea of being tied up and doing nothing.
I want to clarify that I've never had a session or anything like that, and of course, if I did, I'd be willing to do certain things if the dom liked them, to please her, but gentle things, nothing extreme.
I just have that one question and I'm interested in knowing what the doms think. I want to clarify that I'm not trying to disrespect anyone.
u/suckedfeet3 — 1 day ago