It’s literally soooo dead in here tonight. I be doing dumb shit on stage when it’s dead, like the Macarena, sprinkler, etc. I think Gangnam style is too extra tho lol.

Ughhh how do you guys entertain yourself when it’s DEAD. I’m talking like 2 customers 20 dancers dead🤧

Dude mindset is so mf important. I’ve always had the tendency to be an insecure person, I’ve always been sad and depressed or anxious and in shambles. I’ve always drank heavily because I cared too much what people thought of me and I thought everyone thought bad things about me.

My most recent club is quite strict and they’ve been on my ass telling me to cut back on my drinking… I only had two drinks tonight between 7pm and 4am between my two clubs, and I found out apparently people don’t hate me, but they don’t like when I’m sloppy drunk and making a fool of myself. I actually made money tonight without getting stupid drunk.

I’ve always thought I would make negative if I didn’t get drunk. I guess I’m learning that people want a fantasy, you have to read them; slow down, don’t overthink it and psych yourself out. Idk, I’m happy though. I feel like I’ve finally learned that I don’t have to get blackout to work. And I feel so stupid got believing that before… 🫠❤️

I used to feel bad about lying about literally anything but I’ve come to realize that this really is about fulfilling a fantasy, and you kind of gotta tell people what they want to hear.🤷‍♀️

I have a guy who gets VIPs with me and pays me just to chit chat and hear about my hook ups, I’ve come to learn even if I’ve not hooked up with anyone recently, him and I both have a betttr time if I makeup a story. He gets off to it, and my wallet gets fatter🥵

Imagine all the nights you planned to work but talked yourself out of going in…

All the hours you lost because you showed up later than you planned.

All the customers you were too scard to approach, too scared to ask for the tip or too scared to pitch the high $$$ VIP and instead you settled for just another dance.

Now imagine all the money you missed out on because of those moments🫠

Seriously… for just 2026 so far, how much do you think that would be? 🤨

Imagine that money sitting in front of you in cash right now🤑💵

Or imagine seeing it in your bank account. Your savings. The money you’ve been trying to put toward a car, a house, paying off debt, or whatever your goal is🥵💰

Yeah…

Keep imagining it 😐

Because that money was sitting on the table! You either let fear, procrastination, self doubt or some kind of excuse take it from you. 🤧🪦💸

BUT! We’re not letting that happen again, alright? 😉😏

We’re basically halfway through the year now. Let’s finish the rest of 2026 making the most of every opportunity and earning every dollar that’s on the table for us! 😈💕

Love yourself and be confident in your own body, sure there are always going to be haters, and people who say mean shit, but you’ll make a hell of a lot more $ if you’re confident in yourself and you act like it.

Things I use to hate about myself, apparently other people loved. I used to be very insecure about my deep voice, despite people complimenting it a lot until I realized Ari Kytsya (a popular OF girl) also has one. I didn’t really like it about myself despite the compliments until I saw other people complimenting someone else with a deep voice, because I realized that’s a trait some people actually like. People weren’t just saying it to me to be nice or whatever.

And I was thinking about how I think girls that have that gap in between their teeth is soooo attractive, but any time I’ve complimented a girl on it she told me she hated it?

Idk, so maybe just consider that next time you’re criticizing yourself. You’re beautiful the way you are, and doubting yourself in this industry will prevent you from maximizing your earning potential. Love yourself and get that bag!🥰🫶

Like is it just me**???** or does anyone else feel like a lot of completely reasonable posts in this sub get immediately downvoted with no obvious reason?😕 I’m not even saying this because it happened to me recently or anything, I just see it ALL THE TIME.

I don’t really downvote anything here unless it’s a man posting where he shouldn’t be, or someone obviously trying to promote themselves/ using the sub to post for men. But I’ll see posts from dancers sharing an experience, asking for advice, or talking through something they’re dealing with, and they’re sitting at 0 votes within minutes??

(For example): I recently saw a post from a dancer talking about being attracted to a customer and feeling guilty about it. Maybe it’s not the smartest situation to get involved in, but it’s also a pretty human experience. Why immediately react negatively instead of explaining your perspective, sharing advice, or talking about your own experiences?

Even when it’s a baby stripper posting something that belongs elsewhere, I usually just explain the rules and point them in the right direction. I don’t really understand the urge to be rude about it.

Maybe I take downvotes more personally than most people do, but when I see them *on posts here* I basically imagine someone asking for advice, and then being given a middle finger & being called stupid, without anyone actually even explaining why.

This industry can already be exhausting enough. Why are so many dancers so quick to default to annoyance, hostility, or dismissiveness toward other women who are dealing with the same bullshit we are? It makes me sad to see :/

** I am genuinely asking. why does this happen so much here?… Am I just trippin?? **

[TLDR:] Why do so many normal questions and experiences from dancers get immediately downvoted instead of discussed?🤷‍♀️🫠…

I’ve been working hella doubles lately and my curls are always frizzy by the like 7th hour of my shift, and anytime I try to line my waterline with eyeliner, it smudges after a few hours? Any suggestions?

Would love to hear all the other general suggestions for game changing products you love that became an essential for you as well tho😚💕

I got paid $20 per slap to hit a guy I had in VIP recently… man, I used to feel bad about shit like this but I was having a blast. He kept asking me to hit him harder… I was more than happy to.

Baby stripper me would’ve been mortified at the request. After nearly 2 years in the industry though, I think it’s made me grow a bit sadistic🤣🤣🤣

You know the guys that ask you to sit with them? Then they waste you’re time and say “no I don’t want any dances” “ no I don’t wanna tip” “no I don’t want you to grab someone for me” but “I want you to sit with me” (obv they tell you the sit with me thing first…) what’s the proper etiquette?

I was just so baffled I had to share that. The chick whispered it to me after the 2nd dances and she was like “isn’t that SO HOT” girl? No😭 wild.