u/switchinstraps

tips on self spanking? please and thanks!

so I know there's lots of info out there for spanking (what areas are and aren't safe to hit, aftercare, risk awareness, etc) and I've done digging into that, but I haven't found much at all for self spanking. I don't have a partner but I really want to try it out, y'know? I don't bruise easily either, which is what I'm ultimately hoping to achieve, so I thought I'd try reaching out to a community and seeing if anyone has any advice!

right now, I've mostly used impromptu items bc I haven't been sure if I wanted to go full into this kink. but I think I'm ready to try it. I guess what I'm looking for is what tool would be best (crop? paddle? other?) to use on myself and any general advice regarding doing it solo

thanks in advance!!

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u/switchinstraps — 18 hours ago