Hello! As it says in the title, I am not looking for a sub right now. I am looking for a friend who would enjoy a connection with a dominant woman who has done a lot of the things, someone who can engage as a person, not as a role. I especially appreciate younger men.
I am a married woman, married to another woman who is enthusiastic about my relationships, as I am about hers. I have a male sub already, and we have been in a long distance dynamic for about two years now. I have many good friends, a few of whom are aware and supportive of my D/s side. I have a place in my heart and in my life for a friendship with a submissive man. But I'm particular. You should be particular, too!
What I want:
- Intelligence. I am a smart woman and I want to be met there and even bested. I get along especially well with physicians and scientists.
- Stupidity. I want someone who can laugh at everyday life, popular culture, and even posts right here in r/femdompersonals with me.
- Kindness. Compassion for fellow humans is paramount.
What I offer:
- Intelligence: When I don't know a thing, I research or ask those in the know about a topic. I love new topics.
- Stupidity: I have a sense of humor about myself and about the world in general. Otherwise, I'd be huddled somewhere in the fetal position.
- Kindness: I really have an excess of compassion, though I lean toward snark a little too much.
- Mentorship: I can help a genuinely sub-oriented man identify his boundaries, discern possibilities from scams or situations that are less than ideal, and just in general offer experience in the BDSM space.
Since men are visual creatures, here are two photos of me, set to expire in a week:
PICTURE ONE
PICTURE TWO
In thinking about what to block out, I felt that my lips are my most distinctive feature, so you get the version of me that looks like I am gagged and being held hostage. Please note, however, that I am very outspoken and try not to feel gagged. ;)
If, after we get to know each other nominally on Reddit, things seem interesting and safe, I'd love to move to Whatsapp fairly soon. I do not love Reddit's chat in the least.
If you think you might be a friend match for me, please reach out. There is so much more I'd like to learn and share that I cannot possibly fit in this text box.
Please include information about who you are, what you do, what you enjoy, and where you live. If you do not have a post history here, please tell me where I can learn more about you.
Also, have a marvelous day.
EDIT: Okay, in no time at all, I have over 60 responses. If I don't feel we're a friend match, I'm just moving on, but that is no reflection on you! It's about what I know about me and what I prefer in friends. For most of you, please give me some time. Please be well!
EDIT 2: Oh my god, some of you guys are doing yourselves such a disservice. Just tell the woman what she says she wants to hear about. That is the minimum you need in order to respond to a post. Ahhhhhhhhh.