Hey! I’m an inexperienced third, had been with couple hot wives separately for few dates then had a pause due to life circumstances including a move. Now back to the scene and met with a new wife online, we chatted for couple weeks, some light flirting and planned to meet first time for drinks without her husband (never talked with her husband). I asked about her previous experience and they mentioned that they almost always met at their home. They have kids and the kids even met some of their “friends” before. I am not comfortable with the idea of banging while their kids are sleeping next door. I suggested a hotel which I did before (can’t meet at my place) and she said this creeped her out.
I understand people have different expectations and comfort level but want to see where people usually meet and if hotels give bad vibes?!!